evolvingnerd
Senior Don Juan
but
now how do i ask her out to study sometime?
now how do i ask her out to study sometime?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I number closed
- Thread starter evolvingnerd
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Dapper Swindler
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Good work!
Are you sure it is best to ask her to study? Tell us the situation of who this person is and everything.
Are you sure it is best to ask her to study? Tell us the situation of who this person is and everything.
evolvingnerd
Senior Don Juan
i chatted this girl up specifically with the intent of finding a study buddy, and of course practice 
i've seen her quite a bit, always on her own, but very smart
i've seen her quite a bit, always on her own, but very smart
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Wouldn't it have been easier to say something like "Why don't we get together and study sometime, what's your telephone number?"
I don't get it why so many DJs think that getting the telephone number is the goal. IT'S JUST A NUMBER! You want to see the woman again right? Why not focus on that and if you get her number too, even better.
I don't get it why so many DJs think that getting the telephone number is the goal. IT'S JUST A NUMBER! You want to see the woman again right? Why not focus on that and if you get her number too, even better.
I think seeing the number as the goal is more of a short term goal, a stepping stone. Your first goal is to get that number. Next goal, go on a date with her, and so on. It just depends how you break it down. You might look at the big picture, where others see it in steps.
evolvingnerd - I hope you aren't just stringing this girl along as some kind of "practice" for you. Don't waste her time if you are only doing this to inflate your ego. Persue girls you are actually interested in.
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ummm.............Is this a trick question?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Stepping stone? The only way that will work is if you know how to step off of it. It doesn't do much good if the stone is in a pool of lava.
E-nerd, consider being more direct and thinking BIGGER. Half stepping like that will allow a DJ with more skills to come in and blindside you. Think about it, why should she wait around for you to think up how to call and ask her out when another DJ just asks her out?
Be bold, don't follow the norm and you'll see greater success in less time.
E-nerd, consider being more direct and thinking BIGGER. Half stepping like that will allow a DJ with more skills to come in and blindside you. Think about it, why should she wait around for you to think up how to call and ask her out when another DJ just asks her out?
Be bold, don't follow the norm and you'll see greater success in less time.