PuertoRican_Lover
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Tell this hor to put up or shut up!!! Enough with the sexualy frustrated verbal sparring match!!! Be a man and do and get what you want!!!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
i never thought i'd ask for advice here
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Don Juan
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Okay, I called her. She called back the next day (*****). I'm guess she's either playing games or is busy. Well, I guess I'm either playing games or busy then. I didn't pick up because I was sleeping.
So I am holding out for tomorrow to call back. If she wants a delay between calls, I'm going to give her a delay also. Maybe I'm a spiteful *******. This is my life, though.
The message:
"Hey, Kevin, it's J, just calling you back. Sorry I didn't call you back...the day you called. But um, is everything okay? You sounded a little upset. Not sure if that was the case, though, but if you just needed to talk or anything like...that, you know I'm always here for you. Just call me back...when...you get this. Or just...just let me know what's up. <can't hear this part of the message>...drunk. Call me back when you get this. Bye."
Lots of stuttering, some nervous laughter. She is a ****ing weird girl. Or maybe she has a thing for me? Or maybe she's confused why I'd be upset. *I'm* quite confused. I'm making mistakes left and right, and I can't imagine how I'm keeping this **** going. What the **** is going on?
I'm gonna call her back today after I wake up at around 6pm. That'll be roughly 27 hours since she left her message.
Don't bash the stupid things I've done here too hard. I don't need it.
More advice, please. Third party analysis of the situation would be helpful.
So I am holding out for tomorrow to call back. If she wants a delay between calls, I'm going to give her a delay also. Maybe I'm a spiteful *******. This is my life, though.
The message:
"Hey, Kevin, it's J, just calling you back. Sorry I didn't call you back...the day you called. But um, is everything okay? You sounded a little upset. Not sure if that was the case, though, but if you just needed to talk or anything like...that, you know I'm always here for you. Just call me back...when...you get this. Or just...just let me know what's up. <can't hear this part of the message>...drunk. Call me back when you get this. Bye."
Lots of stuttering, some nervous laughter. She is a ****ing weird girl. Or maybe she has a thing for me? Or maybe she's confused why I'd be upset. *I'm* quite confused. I'm making mistakes left and right, and I can't imagine how I'm keeping this **** going. What the **** is going on?
I'm gonna call her back today after I wake up at around 6pm. That'll be roughly 27 hours since she left her message.
Don't bash the stupid things I've done here too hard. I don't need it.
More advice, please. Third party analysis of the situation would be helpful.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Too close to this to think straight
Wow -- what a weird-ass story.
You're too close to the situation to think straight. You're right to ask for third-party advice.
Sheeit, this gal's really into you.
Give her a call as you plan, and keep it playful and fun. Don't botch things up by getting too mushy on her, but don't be afraid to be a bit human, either if the flow dictates it. And don't be out-and-out mean, either. You're glad to get in touch with her, and ready to jump right back in an enjoy giving each other a bit of ****, right? Not to be too Zen about it, but go with the flow.
Then when you get together, just make your move, already, when the vibe is up.
And do keep sober enough to be thinking straight.
Wow -- what a weird-ass story.
You're too close to the situation to think straight. You're right to ask for third-party advice.
Sheeit, this gal's really into you.
Give her a call as you plan, and keep it playful and fun. Don't botch things up by getting too mushy on her, but don't be afraid to be a bit human, either if the flow dictates it. And don't be out-and-out mean, either. You're glad to get in touch with her, and ready to jump right back in an enjoy giving each other a bit of ****, right? Not to be too Zen about it, but go with the flow.
Then when you get together, just make your move, already, when the vibe is up.
And do keep sober enough to be thinking straight.
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Don Juan
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My God, my phone died while talking to her on the phone after doing like 5 phonetags. This is getting ridiculous.
Too much effort
By the way... you are putting SO MUCH effort into this chick, and u are getting so worked about her, i think u should stop for a second, realise that u are outting all this effort, and realise that there are PLENTY of other chicks that u can direct your effort to, and when this girl gets back, THEN u can direct your effort back to her, i think that what u need to do now is just give her a short phonecall saying " Hey, listen, these phones are giving me sh!t and its just too much of a problem to speak like this, so when u get back we must catch up, or get togeather" or watever, u get my drift? In the meantime, lok around, and find urslf some other girls.
Laterz...
Looks like u are having more trouble with the phones than with her! Why dont you just but a phonecard or something and phone her from a payphone? Those always seem to "have goo reception" and they dont run on batteries
By the way... you are putting SO MUCH effort into this chick, and u are getting so worked about her, i think u should stop for a second, realise that u are outting all this effort, and realise that there are PLENTY of other chicks that u can direct your effort to, and when this girl gets back, THEN u can direct your effort back to her, i think that what u need to do now is just give her a short phonecall saying " Hey, listen, these phones are giving me sh!t and its just too much of a problem to speak like this, so when u get back we must catch up, or get togeather" or watever, u get my drift? In the meantime, lok around, and find urslf some other girls.
Laterz...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Don Juan
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That's what I'm gonna do. I'm done with this unless she calls back.