"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She's been giving me the silent treatment until my profile (facebook) got hacked lazt night. I guess my profile had went deactivated, but anyway she starts calling me and texting only because she thought i blocked her or deleted her. Now that i fixed the password issue she goes back to acting mad and i cant get a simple goodmoring out of her, how should i deal with this situation? Only if i ignore her and sure enough a couple days go by and she starts to text me wondering why she hasnt heard from me. Im tired of this! ! Should i disappear and go no contact?? Please be nice and i do appreciate your opinion as well. Many thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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playa99

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Is this a girl you have been seeing? or a girl that you are hoping to see? If you are tired of it which ever way I suggest no contact, start talking to other girls!
 

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give us more background details please.

sounds like my girl. did the same when ignored her. attention *****. leave her forever.

never ever speak to her again. will lead to more issues for u
 

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Playa99 and lamobatsman thank you for your imput, i will do what both of you said. Its too painful to go be strung along any further. I thank you both!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Purefilth

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Withdraw attention from her when she misbehaves. If she acts right? then reward her with a little. She acts with disrespect? walk and never look back.

Women can be trained like puppies
 

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Find another one. You don't have to give up on her but make sure she knows that she is not the only one on your to do list and if she does nothing about it. Oh well. Peace out!
 

Cremasta

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Did you do something to deserve the silent treatment? What is she mad about?

If you're in the wrong, usually the best way is to apologise and get past it.
If you've honestly done nothing, then tell her you've got no time for this highschool bullshyt.
 

cola

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She is testing your dominance. Call her on this **** like this..
"I don't have time for these games. Im busy working on my goals (which you should be) and don't have time for preteen silent treatment. Are you going to stop this or should I go about my business?"

You have to be sincere here. You can text it or say it either way..
If she doesnt respond go NC.. she will contact you soon.
But if she doesnt respond immediately, punish her.

Don't answer the 1st time or 2nd .. the 3rd is fine.

When you have her attention back say this, as unarrogantly as possible..
"Look im a good guy, but im also a busy guy. If you are going to do things like silent treatment when I say or do something you don't like I have to move on"

Let it marinate..
Frame back in your hands.
 

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Well i wouldnt say i deserve it. It all started 2 weeks ago, after we had sex that night she and i went to our own places. I got a text from her pretty much saying why havent i text her alot more since we had sex just a couple hours earlier? So i begin to text her. Everything was fine or seemed fine the rest of that night. The next morning she was distant and has been ever since. Im tired of this crap!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Her passive aggressivness is a fear response. She thinks your going to bang her until your tired of her and move on. This has happend to her before, deductively reasoning from her words.
So after you follow the advice in the first post, if you value her .. reassure her she is worth more to you than her body.
This will ease her mind a little.

Oh yeah im sorry,
After you have sex with women you have to tell them their performance was good.
NEVER ask about your performance in bed as that indicates insecurity. But always tell that her performance was good
 
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