She's been giving me the silent treatment until my profile (facebook) got hacked lazt night. I guess my profile had went deactivated, but anyway she starts calling me and texting only because she thought i blocked her or deleted her. Now that i fixed the password issue she goes back to acting mad and i cant get a simple goodmoring out of her, how should i deal with this situation? Only if i ignore her and sure enough a couple days go by and she starts to text me wondering why she hasnt heard from me. Im tired of this! ! Should i disappear and go no contact?? Please be nice and i do appreciate your opinion as well. Many thanks
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I need your opinion guys!!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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give us more background details please.
sounds like my girl. did the same when ignored her. attention *****. leave her forever.
never ever speak to her again. will lead to more issues for u
sounds like my girl. did the same when ignored her. attention *****. leave her forever.
never ever speak to her again. will lead to more issues for u
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Withdraw attention from her when she misbehaves. If she acts right? then reward her with a little. She acts with disrespect? walk and never look back.
Women can be trained like puppies
Women can be trained like puppies
Did you do something to deserve the silent treatment? What is she mad about?
If you're in the wrong, usually the best way is to apologise and get past it.
If you've honestly done nothing, then tell her you've got no time for this highschool bullshyt.
If you're in the wrong, usually the best way is to apologise and get past it.
If you've honestly done nothing, then tell her you've got no time for this highschool bullshyt.
She is testing your dominance. Call her on this **** like this..
"I don't have time for these games. Im busy working on my goals (which you should be) and don't have time for preteen silent treatment. Are you going to stop this or should I go about my business?"
You have to be sincere here. You can text it or say it either way..
If she doesnt respond go NC.. she will contact you soon.
But if she doesnt respond immediately, punish her.
Don't answer the 1st time or 2nd .. the 3rd is fine.
When you have her attention back say this, as unarrogantly as possible..
"Look im a good guy, but im also a busy guy. If you are going to do things like silent treatment when I say or do something you don't like I have to move on"
Let it marinate..
Frame back in your hands.
"I don't have time for these games. Im busy working on my goals (which you should be) and don't have time for preteen silent treatment. Are you going to stop this or should I go about my business?"
You have to be sincere here. You can text it or say it either way..
If she doesnt respond go NC.. she will contact you soon.
But if she doesnt respond immediately, punish her.
Don't answer the 1st time or 2nd .. the 3rd is fine.
When you have her attention back say this, as unarrogantly as possible..
"Look im a good guy, but im also a busy guy. If you are going to do things like silent treatment when I say or do something you don't like I have to move on"
Let it marinate..
Frame back in your hands.
Well i wouldnt say i deserve it. It all started 2 weeks ago, after we had sex that night she and i went to our own places. I got a text from her pretty much saying why havent i text her alot more since we had sex just a couple hours earlier? So i begin to text her. Everything was fine or seemed fine the rest of that night. The next morning she was distant and has been ever since. Im tired of this crap!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Her passive aggressivness is a fear response. She thinks your going to bang her until your tired of her and move on. This has happend to her before, deductively reasoning from her words.
So after you follow the advice in the first post, if you value her .. reassure her she is worth more to you than her body.
This will ease her mind a little.
Oh yeah im sorry,
After you have sex with women you have to tell them their performance was good.
NEVER ask about your performance in bed as that indicates insecurity. But always tell that her performance was good
So after you follow the advice in the first post, if you value her .. reassure her she is worth more to you than her body.
This will ease her mind a little.
Oh yeah im sorry,
After you have sex with women you have to tell them their performance was good.
NEVER ask about your performance in bed as that indicates insecurity. But always tell that her performance was good