She's been giving me the silent treatment until my profile (facebook) got hacked lazt night. I guess my profile had went deactivated, but anyway she starts calling me and texting only because she thought i blocked her or deleted her. Now that i fixed the password issue she goes back to acting mad and i cant get a simple goodmoring out of her, how should i deal with this situation? Only if i ignore her and sure enough a couple days go by and she starts to text me wondering why she hasnt heard from me. Im tired of this! ! Should i disappear and go no contact?? Please be nice and i do appreciate your opinion as well. Many thanks
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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give us more background details please.
sounds like my girl. did the same when ignored her. attention *****. leave her forever.
never ever speak to her again. will lead to more issues for u
sounds like my girl. did the same when ignored her. attention *****. leave her forever.
never ever speak to her again. will lead to more issues for u
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Withdraw attention from her when she misbehaves. If she acts right? then reward her with a little. She acts with disrespect? walk and never look back.
Women can be trained like puppies
Women can be trained like puppies
Did you do something to deserve the silent treatment? What is she mad about?
If you're in the wrong, usually the best way is to apologise and get past it.
If you've honestly done nothing, then tell her you've got no time for this highschool bullshyt.
If you're in the wrong, usually the best way is to apologise and get past it.
If you've honestly done nothing, then tell her you've got no time for this highschool bullshyt.
She is testing your dominance. Call her on this **** like this..
"I don't have time for these games. Im busy working on my goals (which you should be) and don't have time for preteen silent treatment. Are you going to stop this or should I go about my business?"
You have to be sincere here. You can text it or say it either way..
If she doesnt respond go NC.. she will contact you soon.
But if she doesnt respond immediately, punish her.
Don't answer the 1st time or 2nd .. the 3rd is fine.
When you have her attention back say this, as unarrogantly as possible..
"Look im a good guy, but im also a busy guy. If you are going to do things like silent treatment when I say or do something you don't like I have to move on"
Let it marinate..
Frame back in your hands.
"I don't have time for these games. Im busy working on my goals (which you should be) and don't have time for preteen silent treatment. Are you going to stop this or should I go about my business?"
You have to be sincere here. You can text it or say it either way..
If she doesnt respond go NC.. she will contact you soon.
But if she doesnt respond immediately, punish her.
Don't answer the 1st time or 2nd .. the 3rd is fine.
When you have her attention back say this, as unarrogantly as possible..
"Look im a good guy, but im also a busy guy. If you are going to do things like silent treatment when I say or do something you don't like I have to move on"
Let it marinate..
Frame back in your hands.
Well i wouldnt say i deserve it. It all started 2 weeks ago, after we had sex that night she and i went to our own places. I got a text from her pretty much saying why havent i text her alot more since we had sex just a couple hours earlier? So i begin to text her. Everything was fine or seemed fine the rest of that night. The next morning she was distant and has been ever since. Im tired of this crap!!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Her passive aggressivness is a fear response. She thinks your going to bang her until your tired of her and move on. This has happend to her before, deductively reasoning from her words.
So after you follow the advice in the first post, if you value her .. reassure her she is worth more to you than her body.
This will ease her mind a little.
Oh yeah im sorry,
After you have sex with women you have to tell them their performance was good.
NEVER ask about your performance in bed as that indicates insecurity. But always tell that her performance was good
So after you follow the advice in the first post, if you value her .. reassure her she is worth more to you than her body.
This will ease her mind a little.
Oh yeah im sorry,
After you have sex with women you have to tell them their performance was good.
NEVER ask about your performance in bed as that indicates insecurity. But always tell that her performance was good