"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I need to give her a raincheck on seex.

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2 weeks ago I fvcked a slvt. Recieved oral, possibly gave oral, but I wore a condom during the seex.
I was really drunk, and made a bad decision. rumors spread, I was apparently like the 8th guy since school started, and i even heard a rumor she has gonorrhea. Seeing as how I was planning on getting tested soon, I thought I'd man up and get it done.
Appointment is set for Friday morning at 9. Lone behold the senior that I've been going back and forth with flirting with and I set up to go on a date this week, sushi. I can go through a date, get a kiss, and f-close her another night. WRONG!! this is where you come in.

Patrick124: aight well 6ish it is.
Molly: yeppp thats fine
Molly: hm i may go out thurs
Molly: that night
Patrick124: i'm def going out ha
Molly: and all my roomies will be gone and i will be lonely here by myself
Patrick124: i just might be able to help make sure your ass gets home safely ha
Molly: hahah
Molly: good

I mean... I don't know what to do. How would you react to this? I was considering trying to think of a good "chase me more to earn me" way of giving her a rain check. anyone?
I personally don't feel comfortable hearing theres a slight chance I have an STD and that I could pass it on, so slamming that poos isn't really an option. knock on wood.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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negative if I want to go get sushi with her, I'm just trying to think of a way to use the "I cant fvck you" in my advantage such as saying "I'd love to Molly but if this is real, I know it wont my last chance. and plus, girl I'm not that easy."
 

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Well by saying you'll take her home you're not exactly making things easier. Do you REALLY want to give it a raincheck?
 

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You are going to wear a condom right? Or are you afraid that you might pass it on giving oral or kissing her?
 

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Patrick124 said:
negative if I want to go get sushi with her, I'm just trying to think of a way to use the "I cant fvck you" in my advantage such as saying "I'd love to Molly but if this is real, I know it wont my last chance. and plus, girl I'm not that easy."
I love this one. ;) Although I don't know what kind of girl molly is. If she's slutty she would probably think you're an ass. If she's classy she will probably think you're a gentleman. But then again: I don't know her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dav22 said:
Well by saying you'll take her home you're not exactly making things easier. Do you REALLY want to give it a raincheck?
Do i really want to give her a raincheck? hell no. But am I a decent person and willing to give up one night of sleeping with her to ensure her and my safety. The whole reason i said i'd make sure she got home was so that I could figure it out, I didnt set in stone that I'm sleeping at her house. and she was obviously coming onto me, I couldnt just not notice. lol
 

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Guoy Darko said:
You are going to wear a condom right? Or are you afraid that you might pass it on giving oral or kissing her?
Condoms only protect from certain things; syphilis, genital warts n somethin else, can all be transmitted through skin-rubbing, as well as oral.
its a b!tch, I thought they were fool-proof.
I'm more worried that she wouldn't be down to go from making out to just sex(not horny enough).
 

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OK, so you're afraid of more than only gonorrhea? Because gonorrhea can't be transmitted when you wear a condom.
 

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I would just wear a condom but again you are doing the right thing. It would suck to transmit anything. But isn't gonorrhea curable? Do u have any symptoms like discharge and burning sensation? I was pretty much in the same boat... i banged this girl ... and was so drunk i had no idea whether or not i went in raw dawg and then her friend stated that she had syphalis. Scared the **** outta me... I stopped having sex and finally had the balls to go to the clinic. Thank god i didn't have it... but they gave me a ****load of anitibiotics anyway. Wear a condom period... u don't kno what STDS this new girl might have anyway.

Hope that helps a lil bit.
 

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if she has the crotch rot, don't go sushi on her again
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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