Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I need to give her a raincheck on seex.

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2 weeks ago I fvcked a slvt. Recieved oral, possibly gave oral, but I wore a condom during the seex.
I was really drunk, and made a bad decision. rumors spread, I was apparently like the 8th guy since school started, and i even heard a rumor she has gonorrhea. Seeing as how I was planning on getting tested soon, I thought I'd man up and get it done.
Appointment is set for Friday morning at 9. Lone behold the senior that I've been going back and forth with flirting with and I set up to go on a date this week, sushi. I can go through a date, get a kiss, and f-close her another night. WRONG!! this is where you come in.

Patrick124: aight well 6ish it is.
Molly: yeppp thats fine
Molly: hm i may go out thurs
Molly: that night
Patrick124: i'm def going out ha
Molly: and all my roomies will be gone and i will be lonely here by myself
Patrick124: i just might be able to help make sure your ass gets home safely ha
Molly: hahah
Molly: good

I mean... I don't know what to do. How would you react to this? I was considering trying to think of a good "chase me more to earn me" way of giving her a rain check. anyone?
I personally don't feel comfortable hearing theres a slight chance I have an STD and that I could pass it on, so slamming that poos isn't really an option. knock on wood.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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negative if I want to go get sushi with her, I'm just trying to think of a way to use the "I cant fvck you" in my advantage such as saying "I'd love to Molly but if this is real, I know it wont my last chance. and plus, girl I'm not that easy."
 

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Well by saying you'll take her home you're not exactly making things easier. Do you REALLY want to give it a raincheck?
 

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You are going to wear a condom right? Or are you afraid that you might pass it on giving oral or kissing her?
 

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Patrick124 said:
negative if I want to go get sushi with her, I'm just trying to think of a way to use the "I cant fvck you" in my advantage such as saying "I'd love to Molly but if this is real, I know it wont my last chance. and plus, girl I'm not that easy."
I love this one. ;) Although I don't know what kind of girl molly is. If she's slutty she would probably think you're an ass. If she's classy she will probably think you're a gentleman. But then again: I don't know her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dav22 said:
Well by saying you'll take her home you're not exactly making things easier. Do you REALLY want to give it a raincheck?
Do i really want to give her a raincheck? hell no. But am I a decent person and willing to give up one night of sleeping with her to ensure her and my safety. The whole reason i said i'd make sure she got home was so that I could figure it out, I didnt set in stone that I'm sleeping at her house. and she was obviously coming onto me, I couldnt just not notice. lol
 

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Guoy Darko said:
You are going to wear a condom right? Or are you afraid that you might pass it on giving oral or kissing her?
Condoms only protect from certain things; syphilis, genital warts n somethin else, can all be transmitted through skin-rubbing, as well as oral.
its a b!tch, I thought they were fool-proof.
I'm more worried that she wouldn't be down to go from making out to just sex(not horny enough).
 

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OK, so you're afraid of more than only gonorrhea? Because gonorrhea can't be transmitted when you wear a condom.
 

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I would just wear a condom but again you are doing the right thing. It would suck to transmit anything. But isn't gonorrhea curable? Do u have any symptoms like discharge and burning sensation? I was pretty much in the same boat... i banged this girl ... and was so drunk i had no idea whether or not i went in raw dawg and then her friend stated that she had syphalis. Scared the **** outta me... I stopped having sex and finally had the balls to go to the clinic. Thank god i didn't have it... but they gave me a ****load of anitibiotics anyway. Wear a condom period... u don't kno what STDS this new girl might have anyway.

Hope that helps a lil bit.
 

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if she has the crotch rot, don't go sushi on her again
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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