"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need to give her a raincheck on seex.

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2 weeks ago I fvcked a slvt. Recieved oral, possibly gave oral, but I wore a condom during the seex.
I was really drunk, and made a bad decision. rumors spread, I was apparently like the 8th guy since school started, and i even heard a rumor she has gonorrhea. Seeing as how I was planning on getting tested soon, I thought I'd man up and get it done.
Appointment is set for Friday morning at 9. Lone behold the senior that I've been going back and forth with flirting with and I set up to go on a date this week, sushi. I can go through a date, get a kiss, and f-close her another night. WRONG!! this is where you come in.

Patrick124: aight well 6ish it is.
Molly: yeppp thats fine
Molly: hm i may go out thurs
Molly: that night
Patrick124: i'm def going out ha
Molly: and all my roomies will be gone and i will be lonely here by myself
Patrick124: i just might be able to help make sure your ass gets home safely ha
Molly: hahah
Molly: good

I mean... I don't know what to do. How would you react to this? I was considering trying to think of a good "chase me more to earn me" way of giving her a rain check. anyone?
I personally don't feel comfortable hearing theres a slight chance I have an STD and that I could pass it on, so slamming that poos isn't really an option. knock on wood.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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negative if I want to go get sushi with her, I'm just trying to think of a way to use the "I cant fvck you" in my advantage such as saying "I'd love to Molly but if this is real, I know it wont my last chance. and plus, girl I'm not that easy."
 

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Well by saying you'll take her home you're not exactly making things easier. Do you REALLY want to give it a raincheck?
 

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You are going to wear a condom right? Or are you afraid that you might pass it on giving oral or kissing her?
 

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Patrick124 said:
negative if I want to go get sushi with her, I'm just trying to think of a way to use the "I cant fvck you" in my advantage such as saying "I'd love to Molly but if this is real, I know it wont my last chance. and plus, girl I'm not that easy."
I love this one. ;) Although I don't know what kind of girl molly is. If she's slutty she would probably think you're an ass. If she's classy she will probably think you're a gentleman. But then again: I don't know her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dav22 said:
Well by saying you'll take her home you're not exactly making things easier. Do you REALLY want to give it a raincheck?
Do i really want to give her a raincheck? hell no. But am I a decent person and willing to give up one night of sleeping with her to ensure her and my safety. The whole reason i said i'd make sure she got home was so that I could figure it out, I didnt set in stone that I'm sleeping at her house. and she was obviously coming onto me, I couldnt just not notice. lol
 

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Guoy Darko said:
You are going to wear a condom right? Or are you afraid that you might pass it on giving oral or kissing her?
Condoms only protect from certain things; syphilis, genital warts n somethin else, can all be transmitted through skin-rubbing, as well as oral.
its a b!tch, I thought they were fool-proof.
I'm more worried that she wouldn't be down to go from making out to just sex(not horny enough).
 

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OK, so you're afraid of more than only gonorrhea? Because gonorrhea can't be transmitted when you wear a condom.
 

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I would just wear a condom but again you are doing the right thing. It would suck to transmit anything. But isn't gonorrhea curable? Do u have any symptoms like discharge and burning sensation? I was pretty much in the same boat... i banged this girl ... and was so drunk i had no idea whether or not i went in raw dawg and then her friend stated that she had syphalis. Scared the **** outta me... I stopped having sex and finally had the balls to go to the clinic. Thank god i didn't have it... but they gave me a ****load of anitibiotics anyway. Wear a condom period... u don't kno what STDS this new girl might have anyway.

Hope that helps a lil bit.
 

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if she has the crotch rot, don't go sushi on her again
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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