"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need to give her a raincheck on seex.

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2 weeks ago I fvcked a slvt. Recieved oral, possibly gave oral, but I wore a condom during the seex.
I was really drunk, and made a bad decision. rumors spread, I was apparently like the 8th guy since school started, and i even heard a rumor she has gonorrhea. Seeing as how I was planning on getting tested soon, I thought I'd man up and get it done.
Appointment is set for Friday morning at 9. Lone behold the senior that I've been going back and forth with flirting with and I set up to go on a date this week, sushi. I can go through a date, get a kiss, and f-close her another night. WRONG!! this is where you come in.

Patrick124: aight well 6ish it is.
Molly: yeppp thats fine
Molly: hm i may go out thurs
Molly: that night
Patrick124: i'm def going out ha
Molly: and all my roomies will be gone and i will be lonely here by myself
Patrick124: i just might be able to help make sure your ass gets home safely ha
Molly: hahah
Molly: good

I mean... I don't know what to do. How would you react to this? I was considering trying to think of a good "chase me more to earn me" way of giving her a rain check. anyone?
I personally don't feel comfortable hearing theres a slight chance I have an STD and that I could pass it on, so slamming that poos isn't really an option. knock on wood.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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negative if I want to go get sushi with her, I'm just trying to think of a way to use the "I cant fvck you" in my advantage such as saying "I'd love to Molly but if this is real, I know it wont my last chance. and plus, girl I'm not that easy."
 

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Well by saying you'll take her home you're not exactly making things easier. Do you REALLY want to give it a raincheck?
 

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You are going to wear a condom right? Or are you afraid that you might pass it on giving oral or kissing her?
 

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Patrick124 said:
negative if I want to go get sushi with her, I'm just trying to think of a way to use the "I cant fvck you" in my advantage such as saying "I'd love to Molly but if this is real, I know it wont my last chance. and plus, girl I'm not that easy."
I love this one. ;) Although I don't know what kind of girl molly is. If she's slutty she would probably think you're an ass. If she's classy she will probably think you're a gentleman. But then again: I don't know her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dav22 said:
Well by saying you'll take her home you're not exactly making things easier. Do you REALLY want to give it a raincheck?
Do i really want to give her a raincheck? hell no. But am I a decent person and willing to give up one night of sleeping with her to ensure her and my safety. The whole reason i said i'd make sure she got home was so that I could figure it out, I didnt set in stone that I'm sleeping at her house. and she was obviously coming onto me, I couldnt just not notice. lol
 

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Guoy Darko said:
You are going to wear a condom right? Or are you afraid that you might pass it on giving oral or kissing her?
Condoms only protect from certain things; syphilis, genital warts n somethin else, can all be transmitted through skin-rubbing, as well as oral.
its a b!tch, I thought they were fool-proof.
I'm more worried that she wouldn't be down to go from making out to just sex(not horny enough).
 

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OK, so you're afraid of more than only gonorrhea? Because gonorrhea can't be transmitted when you wear a condom.
 

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I would just wear a condom but again you are doing the right thing. It would suck to transmit anything. But isn't gonorrhea curable? Do u have any symptoms like discharge and burning sensation? I was pretty much in the same boat... i banged this girl ... and was so drunk i had no idea whether or not i went in raw dawg and then her friend stated that she had syphalis. Scared the **** outta me... I stopped having sex and finally had the balls to go to the clinic. Thank god i didn't have it... but they gave me a ****load of anitibiotics anyway. Wear a condom period... u don't kno what STDS this new girl might have anyway.

Hope that helps a lil bit.
 

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if she has the crotch rot, don't go sushi on her again
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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