Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I need to be more *Energetic*

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Okay so I've noticed today that it was really gloomy and depressing weather out, and I just lost all my energy. I got a little sleepy and I wasn't the fun guy that everyone was used to being around.

I've had TONS of days like this, where I'm chilling with my friends and I'm like not talking at all. And it doesn't help when i'm hanging out with girls either...


So my question is...HOW do I get Energetic and KEEP this energy alive?
I know so many people who are like this all the time and people gravitate towards their energy.

Most of the time I'm like that, but I have my bad days as well, it ruins my game BIG TIME too.


Any suggestions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Very simple.
Do good things for others.
Work out.
Get enough Sleep.
Have a positive outlook on your life.
 
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It's your mind set. Turn something bad into good.
 
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mmm...yea I guess thats a good explanation.
I'll try to keep my "Positive" mindset at all times. :cool:

More sleep I'm going to need as well :p
 
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Deep, peaceful and RESTFUL sleep is absolutely critical.

Also, plenty of B Complex vitamins.
Make sure you are enjoying fun activities consistently.

Learn how to recall Positive Experiences and circulate that feeling through your body.

Sometimes, we totally forget just how awesome certain fun, comical, and exciting and self esteem building expereinces we have had, in favor of just beating ourselves up.

Appreciate those moments, and learn to recall those.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanks guys...good tips

Any other ones on how I can get into a good mood and become more energetic and fun??
 
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Sleep Well .

Eat good (healthy) .

Look best of yourself ( get washed up , nice hairstyle ) .

Workout (to be confident about your body)

Be talkative , say HI to everyone , share love with the ones you love .

Do some sports .

Get in mood talking to people and listening your favorite music .



Thats the way i do it :D .
 
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Thanks maang

I guess I gotta start sleeping well, and get a nice hairstyle (mines just flat right now). I already do the rest :cool:

I asked my friend how he gets energetic, and he said a spoonful of Honey helps. And to smile at yourself in the mirror every morning. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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