"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I need to be more *Energetic*

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Okay so I've noticed today that it was really gloomy and depressing weather out, and I just lost all my energy. I got a little sleepy and I wasn't the fun guy that everyone was used to being around.

I've had TONS of days like this, where I'm chilling with my friends and I'm like not talking at all. And it doesn't help when i'm hanging out with girls either...


So my question is...HOW do I get Energetic and KEEP this energy alive?
I know so many people who are like this all the time and people gravitate towards their energy.

Most of the time I'm like that, but I have my bad days as well, it ruins my game BIG TIME too.


Any suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Very simple.
Do good things for others.
Work out.
Get enough Sleep.
Have a positive outlook on your life.
 
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It's your mind set. Turn something bad into good.
 
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mmm...yea I guess thats a good explanation.
I'll try to keep my "Positive" mindset at all times. :cool:

More sleep I'm going to need as well :p
 
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Deep, peaceful and RESTFUL sleep is absolutely critical.

Also, plenty of B Complex vitamins.
Make sure you are enjoying fun activities consistently.

Learn how to recall Positive Experiences and circulate that feeling through your body.

Sometimes, we totally forget just how awesome certain fun, comical, and exciting and self esteem building expereinces we have had, in favor of just beating ourselves up.

Appreciate those moments, and learn to recall those.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks guys...good tips

Any other ones on how I can get into a good mood and become more energetic and fun??
 
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Sleep Well .

Eat good (healthy) .

Look best of yourself ( get washed up , nice hairstyle ) .

Workout (to be confident about your body)

Be talkative , say HI to everyone , share love with the ones you love .

Do some sports .

Get in mood talking to people and listening your favorite music .



Thats the way i do it :D .
 
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Thanks maang

I guess I gotta start sleeping well, and get a nice hairstyle (mines just flat right now). I already do the rest :cool:

I asked my friend how he gets energetic, and he said a spoonful of Honey helps. And to smile at yourself in the mirror every morning. :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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