"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I need to be more *Energetic*

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Okay so I've noticed today that it was really gloomy and depressing weather out, and I just lost all my energy. I got a little sleepy and I wasn't the fun guy that everyone was used to being around.

I've had TONS of days like this, where I'm chilling with my friends and I'm like not talking at all. And it doesn't help when i'm hanging out with girls either...


So my question is...HOW do I get Energetic and KEEP this energy alive?
I know so many people who are like this all the time and people gravitate towards their energy.

Most of the time I'm like that, but I have my bad days as well, it ruins my game BIG TIME too.


Any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Very simple.
Do good things for others.
Work out.
Get enough Sleep.
Have a positive outlook on your life.
 
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It's your mind set. Turn something bad into good.
 
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mmm...yea I guess thats a good explanation.
I'll try to keep my "Positive" mindset at all times. :cool:

More sleep I'm going to need as well :p
 
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Deep, peaceful and RESTFUL sleep is absolutely critical.

Also, plenty of B Complex vitamins.
Make sure you are enjoying fun activities consistently.

Learn how to recall Positive Experiences and circulate that feeling through your body.

Sometimes, we totally forget just how awesome certain fun, comical, and exciting and self esteem building expereinces we have had, in favor of just beating ourselves up.

Appreciate those moments, and learn to recall those.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks guys...good tips

Any other ones on how I can get into a good mood and become more energetic and fun??
 
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Sleep Well .

Eat good (healthy) .

Look best of yourself ( get washed up , nice hairstyle ) .

Workout (to be confident about your body)

Be talkative , say HI to everyone , share love with the ones you love .

Do some sports .

Get in mood talking to people and listening your favorite music .



Thats the way i do it :D .
 
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Thanks maang

I guess I gotta start sleeping well, and get a nice hairstyle (mines just flat right now). I already do the rest :cool:

I asked my friend how he gets energetic, and he said a spoonful of Honey helps. And to smile at yourself in the mirror every morning. :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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