"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I need that killer instinct

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Alittude

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Hey guys I just got my wisdom teeth out a couple days ago so I have about a week to gather up all the information I can and then get out on the field and give it a go.

I think one of my main problems when I'm going to parties and such is that I don't close as much as I should. I look back and not only do I have heaps of chances but I miss blatant opportunities and it just hurts that I didn't close some of these girls that were bascially begging for it.

I really don't know what my problem is but I just don't get the feeling to just go for it and I really am lacking that killer instinct. So if anyone has advice on what to do and how I can learn to get a habbit of just going for the close then I would love to hear it thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Haha dude I've tried that I went 30 days without it but it didn't help so I don't know I guess that's not it.
 
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It's a girl. You don't need a killer instinct to touch/kiss or number close her.

If you've built rapport and she's attracted, she wants you to ask. Obviously you not asking is rooted in your fear.

Do you fear your inexperience? Do you fear not knowing what to do next?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Experience is the only way you get that killer instinct. By experience i mean failures as well as successes - getting rejected and blown out and feeling stupid as well as getting jocked and feeling like you're the man.

Every skill, from playing a sport to speaking in public, follows this pattern. You always suck at the beginning and look dumb, but doing it over and over lets you get comfortable and internalize the things that work for you. Mackin on women is no different.
 
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