"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I need that killer instinct

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Hey guys I just got my wisdom teeth out a couple days ago so I have about a week to gather up all the information I can and then get out on the field and give it a go.

I think one of my main problems when I'm going to parties and such is that I don't close as much as I should. I look back and not only do I have heaps of chances but I miss blatant opportunities and it just hurts that I didn't close some of these girls that were bascially begging for it.

I really don't know what my problem is but I just don't get the feeling to just go for it and I really am lacking that killer instinct. So if anyone has advice on what to do and how I can learn to get a habbit of just going for the close then I would love to hear it thanks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Haha dude I've tried that I went 30 days without it but it didn't help so I don't know I guess that's not it.
 
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It's a girl. You don't need a killer instinct to touch/kiss or number close her.

If you've built rapport and she's attracted, she wants you to ask. Obviously you not asking is rooted in your fear.

Do you fear your inexperience? Do you fear not knowing what to do next?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Experience is the only way you get that killer instinct. By experience i mean failures as well as successes - getting rejected and blown out and feeling stupid as well as getting jocked and feeling like you're the man.

Every skill, from playing a sport to speaking in public, follows this pattern. You always suck at the beginning and look dumb, but doing it over and over lets you get comfortable and internalize the things that work for you. Mackin on women is no different.
 
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