"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need that killer instinct

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Alittude

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Hey guys I just got my wisdom teeth out a couple days ago so I have about a week to gather up all the information I can and then get out on the field and give it a go.

I think one of my main problems when I'm going to parties and such is that I don't close as much as I should. I look back and not only do I have heaps of chances but I miss blatant opportunities and it just hurts that I didn't close some of these girls that were bascially begging for it.

I really don't know what my problem is but I just don't get the feeling to just go for it and I really am lacking that killer instinct. So if anyone has advice on what to do and how I can learn to get a habbit of just going for the close then I would love to hear it thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Haha dude I've tried that I went 30 days without it but it didn't help so I don't know I guess that's not it.
 
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It's a girl. You don't need a killer instinct to touch/kiss or number close her.

If you've built rapport and she's attracted, she wants you to ask. Obviously you not asking is rooted in your fear.

Do you fear your inexperience? Do you fear not knowing what to do next?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Experience is the only way you get that killer instinct. By experience i mean failures as well as successes - getting rejected and blown out and feeling stupid as well as getting jocked and feeling like you're the man.

Every skill, from playing a sport to speaking in public, follows this pattern. You always suck at the beginning and look dumb, but doing it over and over lets you get comfortable and internalize the things that work for you. Mackin on women is no different.
 
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