I need that killer instinct

[Alittude]

Hey guys I just got my wisdom teeth out a couple days ago so I have about a week to gather up all the information I can and then get out on the field and give it a go.

I think one of my main problems when I'm going to parties and such is that I don't close as much as I should. I look back and not only do I have heaps of chances but I miss blatant opportunities and it just hurts that I didn't close some of these girls that were bascially begging for it.

I really don't know what my problem is but I just don't get the feeling to just go for it and I really am lacking that killer instinct. So if anyone has advice on what to do and how I can learn to get a habbit of just going for the close then I would love to hear it thanks.

 

[ChrizZ]

stop masturbating.

 

[Alittude]

Haha dude I've tried that I went 30 days without it but it didn't help so I don't know I guess that's not it.

 

[wjh]

It's a girl. You don't need a killer instinct to touch/kiss or number close her.

If you've built rapport and she's attracted, she wants you to ask. Obviously you not asking is rooted in your fear.

Do you fear your inexperience? Do you fear not knowing what to do next?

 

[TonyWongButOhSoRite]

You're not missing Killer Instinct you're missing a pair of balls. Ask them out. Simple as.

 

[ready123]

Experience is the only way you get that killer instinct. By experience i mean failures as well as successes - getting rejected and blown out and feeling stupid as well as getting jocked and feeling like you're the man.

Every skill, from playing a sport to speaking in public, follows this pattern. You always suck at the beginning and look dumb, but doing it over and over lets you get comfortable and internalize the things that work for you. Mackin on women is no different.

 

[jesusrules]

just keep practicing. push yourself to get those number even if you dont feel like calling them. or you can just get number for the heck of it and that will build confidence.