I was involved with a woman four months ago that I shouldn't have been involved with. She has not contacted me, but everyday, at least two to three times a day for over four months, she checks my social networking site. Any idea what I should put on there? Till this day, I have been messing around and cracking jokes or putting my picture up with other girls, but still my profile says single (I have never directly addressed her). Any ideas on what to put on there that could blow her mind? My feelings were a little hurt on this one and I liked the girl alot, though I should have never been with her. I know for SURE that it's her. 100 percent. So why is she still checking? What should I put on there? Any advice? I find it weird and odd.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I need some advice on what to do here......
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
Trent, just be the fun loving carefree sexy guy you know you are (i assume lol). If she makes contact, appear cool & semi-disinterested. It's like trolling... wait for a bite on your rod before yanking. bide your time, meanwhile spin plates & let her see you have social proof-value by being surrounded by HB's. Patience my friend.
Oh... and if you want to try to induce her to "bite", addude to having a bit of a crush on a secret past romantic interest. She will be studying every word. In other words... like chumming the waters as you troll! LOL
Oh... and if you want to try to induce her to "bite", addude to having a bit of a crush on a secret past romantic interest. She will be studying every word. In other words... like chumming the waters as you troll! LOL
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Stop with the games, and just be you. If it was meant to be, it was meant to be.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
the problem here is you have strong feelings towards her, negative or otherwise. the important thing to point out is you'll be a better man when you just plain get over them; stop caring about whether she checks your site or not. stop checking your site's daily visitors, if that helps.
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This is why the internet has potential to make AFC's of us all.
Knowledge is NOT power in this case. The more you monitor this situation, the worse off you will be. You gain nothing by knowing that she is checking your site if she isn't willing to be involved with you in the real world.
Knowledge is NOT power in this case. The more you monitor this situation, the worse off you will be. You gain nothing by knowing that she is checking your site if she isn't willing to be involved with you in the real world.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
There may be a clue to what she is up to in the quote above.trent81 said:
What happened four months ago ?
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
Cinamon, great idea.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
blow her mind? You wonder if it's over?
how about trying to get over Your hurt? Look, if you were indifferent to her, you could care less if she was checking in. The truth is that you are checking in as often as she is.
It appears from your other threads that you've had kind of a bad beakup and still wish that maybe things were different. What will help the most is Eliminating contact with her, not increasing it, and trying to "blow her mind". In trying to do that, you will probably only succeed in blowing your own mind, and not in a good way.
how about trying to get over Your hurt? Look, if you were indifferent to her, you could care less if she was checking in. The truth is that you are checking in as often as she is.
It appears from your other threads that you've had kind of a bad beakup and still wish that maybe things were different. What will help the most is Eliminating contact with her, not increasing it, and trying to "blow her mind". In trying to do that, you will probably only succeed in blowing your own mind, and not in a good way.