I was involved with a woman four months ago that I shouldn't have been involved with. She has not contacted me, but everyday, at least two to three times a day for over four months, she checks my social networking site. Any idea what I should put on there? Till this day, I have been messing around and cracking jokes or putting my picture up with other girls, but still my profile says single (I have never directly addressed her). Any ideas on what to put on there that could blow her mind? My feelings were a little hurt on this one and I liked the girl alot, though I should have never been with her. I know for SURE that it's her. 100 percent. So why is she still checking? What should I put on there? Any advice? I find it weird and odd.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I need some advice on what to do here......
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
Trent, just be the fun loving carefree sexy guy you know you are (i assume lol). If she makes contact, appear cool & semi-disinterested. It's like trolling... wait for a bite on your rod before yanking. bide your time, meanwhile spin plates & let her see you have social proof-value by being surrounded by HB's. Patience my friend.
Oh... and if you want to try to induce her to "bite", addude to having a bit of a crush on a secret past romantic interest. She will be studying every word. In other words... like chumming the waters as you troll! LOL
Oh... and if you want to try to induce her to "bite", addude to having a bit of a crush on a secret past romantic interest. She will be studying every word. In other words... like chumming the waters as you troll! LOL
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Stop with the games, and just be you. If it was meant to be, it was meant to be.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
the problem here is you have strong feelings towards her, negative or otherwise. the important thing to point out is you'll be a better man when you just plain get over them; stop caring about whether she checks your site or not. stop checking your site's daily visitors, if that helps.
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This is why the internet has potential to make AFC's of us all.
Knowledge is NOT power in this case. The more you monitor this situation, the worse off you will be. You gain nothing by knowing that she is checking your site if she isn't willing to be involved with you in the real world.
Knowledge is NOT power in this case. The more you monitor this situation, the worse off you will be. You gain nothing by knowing that she is checking your site if she isn't willing to be involved with you in the real world.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
There may be a clue to what she is up to in the quote above.trent81 said:
What happened four months ago ?
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
Cinamon, great idea.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
blow her mind? You wonder if it's over?
how about trying to get over Your hurt? Look, if you were indifferent to her, you could care less if she was checking in. The truth is that you are checking in as often as she is.
It appears from your other threads that you've had kind of a bad beakup and still wish that maybe things were different. What will help the most is Eliminating contact with her, not increasing it, and trying to "blow her mind". In trying to do that, you will probably only succeed in blowing your own mind, and not in a good way.
how about trying to get over Your hurt? Look, if you were indifferent to her, you could care less if she was checking in. The truth is that you are checking in as often as she is.
It appears from your other threads that you've had kind of a bad beakup and still wish that maybe things were different. What will help the most is Eliminating contact with her, not increasing it, and trying to "blow her mind". In trying to do that, you will probably only succeed in blowing your own mind, and not in a good way.