"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need opinions on my build.

Rizilki

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6'
176-180 lbs
High and Tight Haircut
22.5(Perfect for my w&h)
3.5%-5.0% BFP
White(slightly tan)

P.S.My sport pushes me in this direction(track and XC)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JLW

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...Dude. If you're 180 pounds with 5% body fat at 6 feet tall you're jacked. I don't see why you need our opinion on your build since everyone knows you're in good shape.
 

JustLurk

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JLW said:
...Dude. If you're 180 pounds with 5% body fat at 6 feet tall you're jacked. I don't see why you need our opinion on your build since everyone knows you're in good shape.
Clearly he must have facked up the calculations. 3.5 BFP and you have a pretty good chance to kick the bucket doing just about anything. 5. is the bare limit for safe living and that's what he put as his max?
 

ENIGMA16

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Clearly he must have facked up the calculations. 3.5 BFP and you have a pretty good chance to kick the bucket doing just about anything. 5. is the bare limit for safe living and that's what he put as his max?
He was probably referring to subcutaneous body fat.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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terran2k

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so you want a bunch of guys to tell you how good you look?
 

JustLurk

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JLay87 said:
He was probably referring to subcutaneous body fat.
Aah. Nvm.
@terran2k: On the other hand, it's probably a bad idea to show off to chicks you only know on the internet. Do what some of my jock friends do, and set a pic of you flexing your abs as your facebook default xD
 

terran2k

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create an account on POF, stick some pics on there of yourself, if you get random messages from cute girls, you're set.
 

JustLurk

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terran2k said:
create an account on POF, stick some pics on there of yourself, if you get random messages from cute girls, you're set.
Russian roulette.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Iceberg

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Rizilki said:
Nothing meant by it guys. I was curious if that's skinny?
A - it's not skinny

B - it's a bunch of numbers on a page. How the hell are we supposed to know if you're skinny?

Do you like your body? If the answer is "yes" then who cares?

You're not a fatty and you're not some scrawny 120lb freak. Life goes on.
 

Neon Owl

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Rizilki said:
6'
176-180 lbs
High and Tight Haircut
22.5(Perfect for my w&h)
13.5%-15.0% BFP
White(slightly tan)

P.S.My sport pushes me in this direction(track and XC)
Fixed.
 
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