"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I need opinions on my build.

Rizilki

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6'
176-180 lbs
High and Tight Haircut
22.5(Perfect for my w&h)
3.5%-5.0% BFP
White(slightly tan)

P.S.My sport pushes me in this direction(track and XC)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JLW

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...Dude. If you're 180 pounds with 5% body fat at 6 feet tall you're jacked. I don't see why you need our opinion on your build since everyone knows you're in good shape.
 

JustLurk

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JLW said:
...Dude. If you're 180 pounds with 5% body fat at 6 feet tall you're jacked. I don't see why you need our opinion on your build since everyone knows you're in good shape.
Clearly he must have facked up the calculations. 3.5 BFP and you have a pretty good chance to kick the bucket doing just about anything. 5. is the bare limit for safe living and that's what he put as his max?
 

ENIGMA16

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Clearly he must have facked up the calculations. 3.5 BFP and you have a pretty good chance to kick the bucket doing just about anything. 5. is the bare limit for safe living and that's what he put as his max?
He was probably referring to subcutaneous body fat.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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terran2k

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so you want a bunch of guys to tell you how good you look?
 

JustLurk

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JLay87 said:
He was probably referring to subcutaneous body fat.
Aah. Nvm.
@terran2k: On the other hand, it's probably a bad idea to show off to chicks you only know on the internet. Do what some of my jock friends do, and set a pic of you flexing your abs as your facebook default xD
 

terran2k

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create an account on POF, stick some pics on there of yourself, if you get random messages from cute girls, you're set.
 

JustLurk

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terran2k said:
create an account on POF, stick some pics on there of yourself, if you get random messages from cute girls, you're set.
Russian roulette.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Iceberg

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Rizilki said:
Nothing meant by it guys. I was curious if that's skinny?
A - it's not skinny

B - it's a bunch of numbers on a page. How the hell are we supposed to know if you're skinny?

Do you like your body? If the answer is "yes" then who cares?

You're not a fatty and you're not some scrawny 120lb freak. Life goes on.
 

Neon Owl

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Rizilki said:
6'
176-180 lbs
High and Tight Haircut
22.5(Perfect for my w&h)
13.5%-15.0% BFP
White(slightly tan)

P.S.My sport pushes me in this direction(track and XC)
Fixed.
 
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