"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So, my buddies party at his beach house was cancelled b/c its supposed to rain like hell now.

There's nothing open, and I'm bored out of my mind. I'm thinking about seeing superman but i dont know if i wanna sit in front of a screen for 2.5 hours.

I'm debating going to teh casino but I dont wanna waste $20 in gas just to get there.

Anyone have any ideas ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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plan something with ur buddies
 
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How do you live? alone?

If so, it is a great moment to invite your friends and girlfriends to your house, watch something or do something together like having a few drinks.

If you don't, and there are not many of your friends in your city right now, well at least you can use your energies for walking around and approach some people in the street or some open place like a park. Creativity creativity!! ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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already went to the gym. Friends decided to go with their families instead. Package stores aren't open. Don't live near a city. NO stores are open to do approaches. No parks around. Ugh.

Was thinking about seeing superman but i heard it was horrible.
 
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Wiesman44 said:
already went to the gym. Friends decided to go with their families instead. Package stores aren't open. Don't live near a city. NO stores are open to do approaches. No parks around. Ugh.

Was thinking about seeing superman but i heard it was horrible.
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wait isnt today Independence day....don't you have a downtown or something to go and see fireworks or something?
 
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Well tonight I'm going to go see them. But at the moment there's nothing to do
 
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Well tonight I'm going to go see them. But at the moment there's nothing to do
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why don't you just go chill downtown, I'm sure there's stuff to do downtown ... girls to see ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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in Connecticut.....there really isn't a downtown. lol. There's two big cities thats more like ghettos. And its going to downpour any second.
 
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Superman Returns is awesome, unless you're one of those people where every superhero movie has to be all dark and ironic with lots of existential hand-wringing.

O/T, I know, but who cares.
 
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this thread is a waste of space on a great website for learning about and discussing women, why are u even asking a bunch of random guys online what to do in this situation????

here's an idea - call up a girl whos # u recently got and offer her to go somewhere to "chill and drink" - if she says sure, then sex is almost guaranteed

btw didnt mean to insult u, but the THREAD really is useless on a site thats about being suave
 
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Skip, quit trying to start arguments. Girls aren't the be all and end all in my life.

Oh, and just ended up seeing Superman. god, what a great movie. I'm never listening to the critics again.
 
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