"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So, my buddies party at his beach house was cancelled b/c its supposed to rain like hell now.

There's nothing open, and I'm bored out of my mind. I'm thinking about seeing superman but i dont know if i wanna sit in front of a screen for 2.5 hours.

I'm debating going to teh casino but I dont wanna waste $20 in gas just to get there.

Anyone have any ideas ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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plan something with ur buddies
 
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How do you live? alone?

If so, it is a great moment to invite your friends and girlfriends to your house, watch something or do something together like having a few drinks.

If you don't, and there are not many of your friends in your city right now, well at least you can use your energies for walking around and approach some people in the street or some open place like a park. Creativity creativity!! ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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already went to the gym. Friends decided to go with their families instead. Package stores aren't open. Don't live near a city. NO stores are open to do approaches. No parks around. Ugh.

Was thinking about seeing superman but i heard it was horrible.
 
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Wiesman44 said:
already went to the gym. Friends decided to go with their families instead. Package stores aren't open. Don't live near a city. NO stores are open to do approaches. No parks around. Ugh.

Was thinking about seeing superman but i heard it was horrible.
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wait isnt today Independence day....don't you have a downtown or something to go and see fireworks or something?
 
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Well tonight I'm going to go see them. But at the moment there's nothing to do
 
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Well tonight I'm going to go see them. But at the moment there's nothing to do
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why don't you just go chill downtown, I'm sure there's stuff to do downtown ... girls to see ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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in Connecticut.....there really isn't a downtown. lol. There's two big cities thats more like ghettos. And its going to downpour any second.
 
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Superman Returns is awesome, unless you're one of those people where every superhero movie has to be all dark and ironic with lots of existential hand-wringing.

O/T, I know, but who cares.
 
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this thread is a waste of space on a great website for learning about and discussing women, why are u even asking a bunch of random guys online what to do in this situation????

here's an idea - call up a girl whos # u recently got and offer her to go somewhere to "chill and drink" - if she says sure, then sex is almost guaranteed

btw didnt mean to insult u, but the THREAD really is useless on a site thats about being suave
 
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Skip, quit trying to start arguments. Girls aren't the be all and end all in my life.

Oh, and just ended up seeing Superman. god, what a great movie. I'm never listening to the critics again.
 
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