"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So, my buddies party at his beach house was cancelled b/c its supposed to rain like hell now.

There's nothing open, and I'm bored out of my mind. I'm thinking about seeing superman but i dont know if i wanna sit in front of a screen for 2.5 hours.

I'm debating going to teh casino but I dont wanna waste $20 in gas just to get there.

Anyone have any ideas ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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plan something with ur buddies
 
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How do you live? alone?

If so, it is a great moment to invite your friends and girlfriends to your house, watch something or do something together like having a few drinks.

If you don't, and there are not many of your friends in your city right now, well at least you can use your energies for walking around and approach some people in the street or some open place like a park. Creativity creativity!! ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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already went to the gym. Friends decided to go with their families instead. Package stores aren't open. Don't live near a city. NO stores are open to do approaches. No parks around. Ugh.

Was thinking about seeing superman but i heard it was horrible.
 
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Wiesman44 said:
already went to the gym. Friends decided to go with their families instead. Package stores aren't open. Don't live near a city. NO stores are open to do approaches. No parks around. Ugh.

Was thinking about seeing superman but i heard it was horrible.
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wait isnt today Independence day....don't you have a downtown or something to go and see fireworks or something?
 
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Well tonight I'm going to go see them. But at the moment there's nothing to do
 
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Well tonight I'm going to go see them. But at the moment there's nothing to do
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why don't you just go chill downtown, I'm sure there's stuff to do downtown ... girls to see ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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in Connecticut.....there really isn't a downtown. lol. There's two big cities thats more like ghettos. And its going to downpour any second.
 
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Superman Returns is awesome, unless you're one of those people where every superhero movie has to be all dark and ironic with lots of existential hand-wringing.

O/T, I know, but who cares.
 
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this thread is a waste of space on a great website for learning about and discussing women, why are u even asking a bunch of random guys online what to do in this situation????

here's an idea - call up a girl whos # u recently got and offer her to go somewhere to "chill and drink" - if she says sure, then sex is almost guaranteed

btw didnt mean to insult u, but the THREAD really is useless on a site thats about being suave
 
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Skip, quit trying to start arguments. Girls aren't the be all and end all in my life.

Oh, and just ended up seeing Superman. god, what a great movie. I'm never listening to the critics again.
 
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