"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So, my buddies party at his beach house was cancelled b/c its supposed to rain like hell now.

There's nothing open, and I'm bored out of my mind. I'm thinking about seeing superman but i dont know if i wanna sit in front of a screen for 2.5 hours.

I'm debating going to teh casino but I dont wanna waste $20 in gas just to get there.

Anyone have any ideas ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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plan something with ur buddies
 

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How do you live? alone?

If so, it is a great moment to invite your friends and girlfriends to your house, watch something or do something together like having a few drinks.

If you don't, and there are not many of your friends in your city right now, well at least you can use your energies for walking around and approach some people in the street or some open place like a park. Creativity creativity!! ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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already went to the gym. Friends decided to go with their families instead. Package stores aren't open. Don't live near a city. NO stores are open to do approaches. No parks around. Ugh.

Was thinking about seeing superman but i heard it was horrible.
 

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Wiesman44 said:
already went to the gym. Friends decided to go with their families instead. Package stores aren't open. Don't live near a city. NO stores are open to do approaches. No parks around. Ugh.

Was thinking about seeing superman but i heard it was horrible.
wait isnt today Independence day....don't you have a downtown or something to go and see fireworks or something?
 

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Well tonight I'm going to go see them. But at the moment there's nothing to do
 

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Wiesman44 said:
Well tonight I'm going to go see them. But at the moment there's nothing to do
why don't you just go chill downtown, I'm sure there's stuff to do downtown ... girls to see ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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in Connecticut.....there really isn't a downtown. lol. There's two big cities thats more like ghettos. And its going to downpour any second.
 

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Superman Returns is awesome, unless you're one of those people where every superhero movie has to be all dark and ironic with lots of existential hand-wringing.

O/T, I know, but who cares.
 

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this thread is a waste of space on a great website for learning about and discussing women, why are u even asking a bunch of random guys online what to do in this situation????

here's an idea - call up a girl whos # u recently got and offer her to go somewhere to "chill and drink" - if she says sure, then sex is almost guaranteed

btw didnt mean to insult u, but the THREAD really is useless on a site thats about being suave
 

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Skip, quit trying to start arguments. Girls aren't the be all and end all in my life.

Oh, and just ended up seeing Superman. god, what a great movie. I'm never listening to the critics again.
 
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