"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ive been on this site for a year doing everything i can and my problem is i cant approach girls!!!

Ive been trying 2 years, ive tryed the dj bootcamp and bible there just not working.

I need help!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes, you obviously do. Two Years?

Quit thinking and analyzing so hard. Life rewards action.
 
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Get comfortable with yourself and with girls. One of the most confidence building things i did was to randomly talk to everyone possible. Even if you feel scared of talking to girls, then learn how to speak to male strangers or old women.

and it makes life more interesting
 
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Ok thanks, im also listening to Awaken the giant within by anthony robbins someone recommened on another post its amazing..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Turn off the Anthony Robbins drivel. It's self-serving crapola.

Get out there and communicate!
 
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dude it dont matter what you listen to or how much u read. All u need to do is a grow a **** and be a man. You ever hear that saying " be a man" that aint bull****, that saying should be applied.
 
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No this Anthony robbins stuff has given me some extra motivation, im going to approach tomo now.
 
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You can't get rid of the fear just by reading some books. Think about it you're going to have fear until you've approached quite a few girls. If you do it now and get it over with you'll never have the fear again and you'll be able to talk to that 10 when you see her on the street. If you don't then you'll watch someone who did approach women before take her home. Go somewhere no-one will ever see you again and approach like theres no tomorrow. Just think of a specific opener for any situation (Mystery has some good openers to use until you're comfortable approaching) say that opener and say "Pleasure meeting you" and walk away. You do not have to deal with rejection and you get to perfect your openers and lessen the fear at the same time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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