"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ive been on this site for a year doing everything i can and my problem is i cant approach girls!!!

Ive been trying 2 years, ive tryed the dj bootcamp and bible there just not working.

I need help!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, you obviously do. Two Years?

Quit thinking and analyzing so hard. Life rewards action.
 
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Get comfortable with yourself and with girls. One of the most confidence building things i did was to randomly talk to everyone possible. Even if you feel scared of talking to girls, then learn how to speak to male strangers or old women.

and it makes life more interesting
 
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Ok thanks, im also listening to Awaken the giant within by anthony robbins someone recommened on another post its amazing..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Turn off the Anthony Robbins drivel. It's self-serving crapola.

Get out there and communicate!
 
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dude it dont matter what you listen to or how much u read. All u need to do is a grow a **** and be a man. You ever hear that saying " be a man" that aint bull****, that saying should be applied.
 
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No this Anthony robbins stuff has given me some extra motivation, im going to approach tomo now.
 
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You can't get rid of the fear just by reading some books. Think about it you're going to have fear until you've approached quite a few girls. If you do it now and get it over with you'll never have the fear again and you'll be able to talk to that 10 when you see her on the street. If you don't then you'll watch someone who did approach women before take her home. Go somewhere no-one will ever see you again and approach like theres no tomorrow. Just think of a specific opener for any situation (Mystery has some good openers to use until you're comfortable approaching) say that opener and say "Pleasure meeting you" and walk away. You do not have to deal with rejection and you get to perfect your openers and lessen the fear at the same time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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