"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I need help!!

the-tiger

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Ive been on this site for a year doing everything i can and my problem is i cant approach girls!!!

Ive been trying 2 years, ive tryed the dj bootcamp and bible there just not working.

I need help!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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earthshyne

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Yes, you obviously do. Two Years?

Quit thinking and analyzing so hard. Life rewards action.
 

JSH

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Get comfortable with yourself and with girls. One of the most confidence building things i did was to randomly talk to everyone possible. Even if you feel scared of talking to girls, then learn how to speak to male strangers or old women.

and it makes life more interesting
 

the-tiger

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Ok thanks, im also listening to Awaken the giant within by anthony robbins someone recommened on another post its amazing..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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earthshyne

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Turn off the Anthony Robbins drivel. It's self-serving crapola.

Get out there and communicate!
 

saminex

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dude it dont matter what you listen to or how much u read. All u need to do is a grow a **** and be a man. You ever hear that saying " be a man" that aint bull****, that saying should be applied.
 

the-tiger

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No this Anthony robbins stuff has given me some extra motivation, im going to approach tomo now.
 

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You can't get rid of the fear just by reading some books. Think about it you're going to have fear until you've approached quite a few girls. If you do it now and get it over with you'll never have the fear again and you'll be able to talk to that 10 when you see her on the street. If you don't then you'll watch someone who did approach women before take her home. Go somewhere no-one will ever see you again and approach like theres no tomorrow. Just think of a specific opener for any situation (Mystery has some good openers to use until you're comfortable approaching) say that opener and say "Pleasure meeting you" and walk away. You do not have to deal with rejection and you get to perfect your openers and lessen the fear at the same time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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