"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need help

Steven

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I met this girl i really like on the elevator of my building the other day, but like an idiot, i didnt ask for her name or number (it was a brief encounter), but now i never see he. i do know what floor she lives on, but i dont know her room number. How should i try to contact her, and get to know her? Any advice would be appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you sure this girl is worth the trouble? I see girls I like all the time, it might be easier to go for one of them instead of this elevator girl who you've lost.

But, if you're desperate to have her, you could go door-knocking. Just take round a 'community survey questionnaire' and ask people what problems they have with the building and residence in general. Not only do you get to meet someone from each flat (apartment), you've got an easy opening conversation if you do bump into the girl you're looking for.
 

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thanks Bhetoven. I may want to try that. But i am worried that it makes me seem to stalkerish. Also, the reason that i was interested in this girl is because i sort of seemed like she could have been interested in me. For example, out of the blue she struck up a conversation with me and my roommate, and generally seemed interested in us. Based upon this, do you think i should pursue her? Thanks
 

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Originally posted by Beethoven

But, if you're desperate to have her, you could go door-knocking. Just take round a 'community survey questionnaire' and ask people what problems they have with the building and residence in general. Not only do you get to meet someone from each flat (apartment), you've got an easy opening conversation if you do bump into the girl you're looking for. [/B]
Your kidding right.....
who in there right mind would go through all this trouble just to meet a girl. Forget about her, go find someone else. If you happen to bump into her again then fine, initiate a conversation, but other wise forget it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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