"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I met this girl i really like on the elevator of my building the other day, but like an idiot, i didnt ask for her name or number (it was a brief encounter), but now i never see he. i do know what floor she lives on, but i dont know her room number. How should i try to contact her, and get to know her? Any advice would be appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you sure this girl is worth the trouble? I see girls I like all the time, it might be easier to go for one of them instead of this elevator girl who you've lost.

But, if you're desperate to have her, you could go door-knocking. Just take round a 'community survey questionnaire' and ask people what problems they have with the building and residence in general. Not only do you get to meet someone from each flat (apartment), you've got an easy opening conversation if you do bump into the girl you're looking for.
 
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thanks Bhetoven. I may want to try that. But i am worried that it makes me seem to stalkerish. Also, the reason that i was interested in this girl is because i sort of seemed like she could have been interested in me. For example, out of the blue she struck up a conversation with me and my roommate, and generally seemed interested in us. Based upon this, do you think i should pursue her? Thanks
 
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Originally posted by Beethoven

But, if you're desperate to have her, you could go door-knocking. Just take round a 'community survey questionnaire' and ask people what problems they have with the building and residence in general. Not only do you get to meet someone from each flat (apartment), you've got an easy opening conversation if you do bump into the girl you're looking for. [/B]
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Your kidding right.....
who in there right mind would go through all this trouble just to meet a girl. Forget about her, go find someone else. If you happen to bump into her again then fine, initiate a conversation, but other wise forget it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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