"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need help

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I met this girl i really like on the elevator of my building the other day, but like an idiot, i didnt ask for her name or number (it was a brief encounter), but now i never see he. i do know what floor she lives on, but i dont know her room number. How should i try to contact her, and get to know her? Any advice would be appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you sure this girl is worth the trouble? I see girls I like all the time, it might be easier to go for one of them instead of this elevator girl who you've lost.

But, if you're desperate to have her, you could go door-knocking. Just take round a 'community survey questionnaire' and ask people what problems they have with the building and residence in general. Not only do you get to meet someone from each flat (apartment), you've got an easy opening conversation if you do bump into the girl you're looking for.
 

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thanks Bhetoven. I may want to try that. But i am worried that it makes me seem to stalkerish. Also, the reason that i was interested in this girl is because i sort of seemed like she could have been interested in me. For example, out of the blue she struck up a conversation with me and my roommate, and generally seemed interested in us. Based upon this, do you think i should pursue her? Thanks
 

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Originally posted by Beethoven

But, if you're desperate to have her, you could go door-knocking. Just take round a 'community survey questionnaire' and ask people what problems they have with the building and residence in general. Not only do you get to meet someone from each flat (apartment), you've got an easy opening conversation if you do bump into the girl you're looking for. [/B]
Your kidding right.....
who in there right mind would go through all this trouble just to meet a girl. Forget about her, go find someone else. If you happen to bump into her again then fine, initiate a conversation, but other wise forget it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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