"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I need help

Steven

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I met this girl i really like on the elevator of my building the other day, but like an idiot, i didnt ask for her name or number (it was a brief encounter), but now i never see he. i do know what floor she lives on, but i dont know her room number. How should i try to contact her, and get to know her? Any advice would be appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Beethoven

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Are you sure this girl is worth the trouble? I see girls I like all the time, it might be easier to go for one of them instead of this elevator girl who you've lost.

But, if you're desperate to have her, you could go door-knocking. Just take round a 'community survey questionnaire' and ask people what problems they have with the building and residence in general. Not only do you get to meet someone from each flat (apartment), you've got an easy opening conversation if you do bump into the girl you're looking for.
 

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thanks Bhetoven. I may want to try that. But i am worried that it makes me seem to stalkerish. Also, the reason that i was interested in this girl is because i sort of seemed like she could have been interested in me. For example, out of the blue she struck up a conversation with me and my roommate, and generally seemed interested in us. Based upon this, do you think i should pursue her? Thanks
 

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Originally posted by Beethoven

But, if you're desperate to have her, you could go door-knocking. Just take round a 'community survey questionnaire' and ask people what problems they have with the building and residence in general. Not only do you get to meet someone from each flat (apartment), you've got an easy opening conversation if you do bump into the girl you're looking for. [/B]
Your kidding right.....
who in there right mind would go through all this trouble just to meet a girl. Forget about her, go find someone else. If you happen to bump into her again then fine, initiate a conversation, but other wise forget it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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