"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i need help with small talk

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azn_alex

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i dont wanna sound gay, but this will

i have my friendship group of dudes and **** is all cool with them, but other than that, every other person i know is a chick coz i only make friends and/or hook up with chicks

several guides say to talk to everyone, including guys, coz it'll make u more popular etc

the problem is, i cant talk to other guys. im asian so the dudes who know all the chicks are 'hardcore' and they're the kinda guys who are normally quiet like they are 'too hardcore' to talk. how do u become friends with these ppl?

if im like 'so wat skool do u go to' and all that, they get the impression that im a fag

ahh **** that sounded gay..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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haha dude u just gotta make friends...which is alot easier than macking.

just go to peoples houses or have them come over or have them as wingmen when u go out. there doesnt have to be alot of talking involved, just chilling and smoking or whatever you do.

its easy, u just gotta be less of an ass to the guys while still commanding respect.
 
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Originally posted by FatBastard
You can't have sex without putting on a condom. Don't forget that.
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How so?? Is it physically impossible or are you saying you shouldnt?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
haha dude u just gotta make friends...which is alot easier than macking.

just go to peoples houses or have them come over or have them as wingmen when u go out. there doesnt have to be alot of talking involved, just chilling and smoking or whatever you do.

its easy, u just gotta be less of an ass to the guys while still commanding respect.
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Im gonna have to disagree with you. For me macking is A LOT easier than making friends. People say girls hate each other but its the same wth guys. Ive gone places with friends before and all the guys were just watching us like hawks.
 
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^yea thats exactly wat im sayin man. i cant make friends wit dudes, outside of my friendship group i only have chick friends. u cant become popular wen u only talk to females

i talk to my friendship group abt pickin up girls, but other dudes dont talk about that, they talk about cars which i dont know too much about
 
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