"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i need help with small talk

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azn_alex

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i dont wanna sound gay, but this will

i have my friendship group of dudes and **** is all cool with them, but other than that, every other person i know is a chick coz i only make friends and/or hook up with chicks

several guides say to talk to everyone, including guys, coz it'll make u more popular etc

the problem is, i cant talk to other guys. im asian so the dudes who know all the chicks are 'hardcore' and they're the kinda guys who are normally quiet like they are 'too hardcore' to talk. how do u become friends with these ppl?

if im like 'so wat skool do u go to' and all that, they get the impression that im a fag

ahh **** that sounded gay..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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haha dude u just gotta make friends...which is alot easier than macking.

just go to peoples houses or have them come over or have them as wingmen when u go out. there doesnt have to be alot of talking involved, just chilling and smoking or whatever you do.

its easy, u just gotta be less of an ass to the guys while still commanding respect.
 
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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by FatBastard
You can't have sex without putting on a condom. Don't forget that.
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How so?? Is it physically impossible or are you saying you shouldnt?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
haha dude u just gotta make friends...which is alot easier than macking.

just go to peoples houses or have them come over or have them as wingmen when u go out. there doesnt have to be alot of talking involved, just chilling and smoking or whatever you do.

its easy, u just gotta be less of an ass to the guys while still commanding respect.
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Im gonna have to disagree with you. For me macking is A LOT easier than making friends. People say girls hate each other but its the same wth guys. Ive gone places with friends before and all the guys were just watching us like hawks.
 
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^yea thats exactly wat im sayin man. i cant make friends wit dudes, outside of my friendship group i only have chick friends. u cant become popular wen u only talk to females

i talk to my friendship group abt pickin up girls, but other dudes dont talk about that, they talk about cars which i dont know too much about
 
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