"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i need help with small talk

azn_alex

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i dont wanna sound gay, but this will

i have my friendship group of dudes and **** is all cool with them, but other than that, every other person i know is a chick coz i only make friends and/or hook up with chicks

several guides say to talk to everyone, including guys, coz it'll make u more popular etc

the problem is, i cant talk to other guys. im asian so the dudes who know all the chicks are 'hardcore' and they're the kinda guys who are normally quiet like they are 'too hardcore' to talk. how do u become friends with these ppl?

if im like 'so wat skool do u go to' and all that, they get the impression that im a fag

ahh **** that sounded gay..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dannowillbookem

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haha dude u just gotta make friends...which is alot easier than macking.

just go to peoples houses or have them come over or have them as wingmen when u go out. there doesnt have to be alot of talking involved, just chilling and smoking or whatever you do.

its easy, u just gotta be less of an ass to the guys while still commanding respect.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by FatBastard
You can't have sex without putting on a condom. Don't forget that.
How so?? Is it physically impossible or are you saying you shouldnt?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
haha dude u just gotta make friends...which is alot easier than macking.

just go to peoples houses or have them come over or have them as wingmen when u go out. there doesnt have to be alot of talking involved, just chilling and smoking or whatever you do.

its easy, u just gotta be less of an ass to the guys while still commanding respect.
Im gonna have to disagree with you. For me macking is A LOT easier than making friends. People say girls hate each other but its the same wth guys. Ive gone places with friends before and all the guys were just watching us like hawks.
 

azn_alex

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^yea thats exactly wat im sayin man. i cant make friends wit dudes, outside of my friendship group i only have chick friends. u cant become popular wen u only talk to females

i talk to my friendship group abt pickin up girls, but other dudes dont talk about that, they talk about cars which i dont know too much about
 
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