"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i need help with small talk

azn_alex

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i dont wanna sound gay, but this will

i have my friendship group of dudes and **** is all cool with them, but other than that, every other person i know is a chick coz i only make friends and/or hook up with chicks

several guides say to talk to everyone, including guys, coz it'll make u more popular etc

the problem is, i cant talk to other guys. im asian so the dudes who know all the chicks are 'hardcore' and they're the kinda guys who are normally quiet like they are 'too hardcore' to talk. how do u become friends with these ppl?

if im like 'so wat skool do u go to' and all that, they get the impression that im a fag

ahh **** that sounded gay..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dannowillbookem

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haha dude u just gotta make friends...which is alot easier than macking.

just go to peoples houses or have them come over or have them as wingmen when u go out. there doesnt have to be alot of talking involved, just chilling and smoking or whatever you do.

its easy, u just gotta be less of an ass to the guys while still commanding respect.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by FatBastard
You can't have sex without putting on a condom. Don't forget that.
How so?? Is it physically impossible or are you saying you shouldnt?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
haha dude u just gotta make friends...which is alot easier than macking.

just go to peoples houses or have them come over or have them as wingmen when u go out. there doesnt have to be alot of talking involved, just chilling and smoking or whatever you do.

its easy, u just gotta be less of an ass to the guys while still commanding respect.
Im gonna have to disagree with you. For me macking is A LOT easier than making friends. People say girls hate each other but its the same wth guys. Ive gone places with friends before and all the guys were just watching us like hawks.
 

azn_alex

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^yea thats exactly wat im sayin man. i cant make friends wit dudes, outside of my friendship group i only have chick friends. u cant become popular wen u only talk to females

i talk to my friendship group abt pickin up girls, but other dudes dont talk about that, they talk about cars which i dont know too much about
 
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