"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I need help, some fat ladies hate my guts.

Mr. Wolf

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Guys, I need help. This started ever since I took on study to become alpha male, guide by John Alexander. Basically, I've noticed that fat and ugly women, but mostly fat older women hate my guts.

It happens mostly in guns for hire settings, post office, bank, publix, office depot, etc. I've noticed they are trying to out alpha me, shoot me down, treat me bad, disrespect.

For example, today, I got to one of the bank to make a deposit. Wait inline, time comes, and one fat older teller is free, but she's not calling, she looks busy. Ignoring me. The other, younger teller frees up, fat one at that, and I go to her, she loves me.. As soon as I leave line, the other fat older teller calls someone else. This is not the first time that particular fat older lady teller is having attitude problems. I noticed it today, everyone else noticed it today.

I've played it cool, made a chat with fat young girl. She was laughing, we had small fun, and everyone heard it.

This is not limited to that bank, in the other bank, same thing. Post office, same thing, god damn publix, same thing. Everywhere I go, they hate my guts.



I would like to know if this is real or I'm just going nuts?


I think it's real. I mean, I go places, and I find those fat older women unattractive, pissed off, and hating on me. It's like they single me out and hate on me.. I am more alpha around others, via body language, is that it?


Whose problem is this? Is this my problem? Is this their problem? What to do about it?


Am I doing something wrong?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Obsidian

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If you become a real man, hags and gay men will tend to hate you, I think. If you're nice to the hags first, they may lighten up when they see you're not a threat (or start to think they may have a chance with you ;) ), but in general, just focus on the pretty people.

Pook specifically mentions the gay men part, not sure about the hags. But it seems to be truth.
 

romangod

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Guys, I need help. This started ever since I took on study to become alpha male, guide by John Alexander. Basically, I've noticed that fat and ugly women, but mostly fat older women hate my guts.



Count your blessings.
 

The Bat

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I don't understand the problem. Why do you care so much if they hate you or not?
 

KontrollerX

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Nothing you can do about it.

You are probably the kind of man they desire but know that they will never get until they put forth the effort to shed the pounds.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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