"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need help, some fat ladies hate my guts.

Mr. Wolf

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Guys, I need help. This started ever since I took on study to become alpha male, guide by John Alexander. Basically, I've noticed that fat and ugly women, but mostly fat older women hate my guts.

It happens mostly in guns for hire settings, post office, bank, publix, office depot, etc. I've noticed they are trying to out alpha me, shoot me down, treat me bad, disrespect.

For example, today, I got to one of the bank to make a deposit. Wait inline, time comes, and one fat older teller is free, but she's not calling, she looks busy. Ignoring me. The other, younger teller frees up, fat one at that, and I go to her, she loves me.. As soon as I leave line, the other fat older teller calls someone else. This is not the first time that particular fat older lady teller is having attitude problems. I noticed it today, everyone else noticed it today.

I've played it cool, made a chat with fat young girl. She was laughing, we had small fun, and everyone heard it.

This is not limited to that bank, in the other bank, same thing. Post office, same thing, god damn publix, same thing. Everywhere I go, they hate my guts.



I would like to know if this is real or I'm just going nuts?


I think it's real. I mean, I go places, and I find those fat older women unattractive, pissed off, and hating on me. It's like they single me out and hate on me.. I am more alpha around others, via body language, is that it?


Whose problem is this? Is this my problem? Is this their problem? What to do about it?


Am I doing something wrong?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Obsidian

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If you become a real man, hags and gay men will tend to hate you, I think. If you're nice to the hags first, they may lighten up when they see you're not a threat (or start to think they may have a chance with you ;) ), but in general, just focus on the pretty people.

Pook specifically mentions the gay men part, not sure about the hags. But it seems to be truth.
 

romangod

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Guys, I need help. This started ever since I took on study to become alpha male, guide by John Alexander. Basically, I've noticed that fat and ugly women, but mostly fat older women hate my guts.



Count your blessings.
 

The Bat

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I don't understand the problem. Why do you care so much if they hate you or not?
 

KontrollerX

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Nothing you can do about it.

You are probably the kind of man they desire but know that they will never get until they put forth the effort to shed the pounds.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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