"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I need help, some fat ladies hate my guts.

Mr. Wolf

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Guys, I need help. This started ever since I took on study to become alpha male, guide by John Alexander. Basically, I've noticed that fat and ugly women, but mostly fat older women hate my guts.

It happens mostly in guns for hire settings, post office, bank, publix, office depot, etc. I've noticed they are trying to out alpha me, shoot me down, treat me bad, disrespect.

For example, today, I got to one of the bank to make a deposit. Wait inline, time comes, and one fat older teller is free, but she's not calling, she looks busy. Ignoring me. The other, younger teller frees up, fat one at that, and I go to her, she loves me.. As soon as I leave line, the other fat older teller calls someone else. This is not the first time that particular fat older lady teller is having attitude problems. I noticed it today, everyone else noticed it today.

I've played it cool, made a chat with fat young girl. She was laughing, we had small fun, and everyone heard it.

This is not limited to that bank, in the other bank, same thing. Post office, same thing, god damn publix, same thing. Everywhere I go, they hate my guts.



I would like to know if this is real or I'm just going nuts?


I think it's real. I mean, I go places, and I find those fat older women unattractive, pissed off, and hating on me. It's like they single me out and hate on me.. I am more alpha around others, via body language, is that it?


Whose problem is this? Is this my problem? Is this their problem? What to do about it?


Am I doing something wrong?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Obsidian

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If you become a real man, hags and gay men will tend to hate you, I think. If you're nice to the hags first, they may lighten up when they see you're not a threat (or start to think they may have a chance with you ;) ), but in general, just focus on the pretty people.

Pook specifically mentions the gay men part, not sure about the hags. But it seems to be truth.
 

romangod

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Guys, I need help. This started ever since I took on study to become alpha male, guide by John Alexander. Basically, I've noticed that fat and ugly women, but mostly fat older women hate my guts.



Count your blessings.
 

The Bat

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I don't understand the problem. Why do you care so much if they hate you or not?
 

KontrollerX

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Nothing you can do about it.

You are probably the kind of man they desire but know that they will never get until they put forth the effort to shed the pounds.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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