"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I need help, some fat ladies hate my guts.

Mr. Wolf

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Guys, I need help. This started ever since I took on study to become alpha male, guide by John Alexander. Basically, I've noticed that fat and ugly women, but mostly fat older women hate my guts.

It happens mostly in guns for hire settings, post office, bank, publix, office depot, etc. I've noticed they are trying to out alpha me, shoot me down, treat me bad, disrespect.

For example, today, I got to one of the bank to make a deposit. Wait inline, time comes, and one fat older teller is free, but she's not calling, she looks busy. Ignoring me. The other, younger teller frees up, fat one at that, and I go to her, she loves me.. As soon as I leave line, the other fat older teller calls someone else. This is not the first time that particular fat older lady teller is having attitude problems. I noticed it today, everyone else noticed it today.

I've played it cool, made a chat with fat young girl. She was laughing, we had small fun, and everyone heard it.

This is not limited to that bank, in the other bank, same thing. Post office, same thing, god damn publix, same thing. Everywhere I go, they hate my guts.



I would like to know if this is real or I'm just going nuts?


I think it's real. I mean, I go places, and I find those fat older women unattractive, pissed off, and hating on me. It's like they single me out and hate on me.. I am more alpha around others, via body language, is that it?


Whose problem is this? Is this my problem? Is this their problem? What to do about it?


Am I doing something wrong?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Obsidian

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If you become a real man, hags and gay men will tend to hate you, I think. If you're nice to the hags first, they may lighten up when they see you're not a threat (or start to think they may have a chance with you ;) ), but in general, just focus on the pretty people.

Pook specifically mentions the gay men part, not sure about the hags. But it seems to be truth.
 

romangod

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Guys, I need help. This started ever since I took on study to become alpha male, guide by John Alexander. Basically, I've noticed that fat and ugly women, but mostly fat older women hate my guts.



Count your blessings.
 

The Bat

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I don't understand the problem. Why do you care so much if they hate you or not?
 

KontrollerX

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Nothing you can do about it.

You are probably the kind of man they desire but know that they will never get until they put forth the effort to shed the pounds.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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