"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i need help..how do i turn a fling into a meaningful relationship?

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hey..um im kinda new to the game and just made an account but i have a problem that i thought someone friendly might be able 2 help me with..

there is this girl right, that i have seen quite a few times, and i like her alot. we have hooked up and done other stuff and i am falling for her but she has made it clear that she wants a no strings attached relationship, while i want a relationship (she doesnt know that i want a relationship, but i have kinda hinted at it) what should i do? should i tell her that i want a more meaningful relationship or should i just keep going along with her and wait for her to make the first move..if she ever does (i really dont wanna be involved in this fling much longer if it doesnt go anywhere because im falling for her and its bad for me mentally) Thanks for your help peoples...P.s if i was to ask her out how would i do it...its ovious that im an AFC but i am trying to fix myself and i would appreciate your help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd go on vacation and forget about her.
The most important thing you can do here is stay away from feeling attached. You must learn that if you lose a girl, it's no big deal no matter who she is.

Also if you've only hinted, you might wanna tell her that you actually do want a relationship, incase she didn't realize... but when you ask her, DON'T BE AFC ABOUT IT!

Yeah you should go on vacation. Have some fun and forget about her.
 
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If she made it clear she doesnt want a relationship then the worse thing you could do is ask her out.
Keep going with it but start getting involved with another girl. This will get you to lose some of that intrest in the fling girl and could get her jelious when she hears of you with another girl. Dont tell her your talking to another girl, it will work much better if she hears it from someone else. She gets jelious and all of a sudden she wants more than just a fling with you.
 
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I was thinking of something like... tell her you want a relationship, or she can find some other lesser-guy to fool with.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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^it also depends on her, cause she might have more than one guy she messes around with. so it could be hard to tell.
 
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