"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i need help..how do i turn a fling into a meaningful relationship?

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hey..um im kinda new to the game and just made an account but i have a problem that i thought someone friendly might be able 2 help me with..

there is this girl right, that i have seen quite a few times, and i like her alot. we have hooked up and done other stuff and i am falling for her but she has made it clear that she wants a no strings attached relationship, while i want a relationship (she doesnt know that i want a relationship, but i have kinda hinted at it) what should i do? should i tell her that i want a more meaningful relationship or should i just keep going along with her and wait for her to make the first move..if she ever does (i really dont wanna be involved in this fling much longer if it doesnt go anywhere because im falling for her and its bad for me mentally) Thanks for your help peoples...P.s if i was to ask her out how would i do it...its ovious that im an AFC but i am trying to fix myself and i would appreciate your help.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd go on vacation and forget about her.
The most important thing you can do here is stay away from feeling attached. You must learn that if you lose a girl, it's no big deal no matter who she is.

Also if you've only hinted, you might wanna tell her that you actually do want a relationship, incase she didn't realize... but when you ask her, DON'T BE AFC ABOUT IT!

Yeah you should go on vacation. Have some fun and forget about her.
 
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If she made it clear she doesnt want a relationship then the worse thing you could do is ask her out.
Keep going with it but start getting involved with another girl. This will get you to lose some of that intrest in the fling girl and could get her jelious when she hears of you with another girl. Dont tell her your talking to another girl, it will work much better if she hears it from someone else. She gets jelious and all of a sudden she wants more than just a fling with you.
 
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I was thinking of something like... tell her you want a relationship, or she can find some other lesser-guy to fool with.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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^it also depends on her, cause she might have more than one guy she messes around with. so it could be hard to tell.
 
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