Ok my number one problem is no one listians to me i am really friendly and sometimes ppl just ignore or they just say high or ok and do something else another no girls walk up to me i have to walk to them is it cause i'm short i'm not loser or popular i'm middle lotta friends some nerd some cool dudes known but not known HELP ME OUT!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
i consider myself a bit of a nerd too. When I was 11 i was not at all popular with the ladies, but now that i'm 15, i have a lot of good girl friends. Trick is to be confident. Chicks gravitate towards confident people. I'm single, but i've had a few offers. I'm waiting for the right person and that is also a way to get wanted.
Who would of thought. Nerds do exist.
I used to be the same way, but if you want people to listen, you have to say something important. Are you sure they aren't just tired of listening to you?
Start rserving your speech for something important.
One thing at a time.
I used to be the same way, but if you want people to listen, you have to say something important. Are you sure they aren't just tired of listening to you?
Start rserving your speech for something important.
One thing at a time.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Don Juan
This guy is right u know. Man if u keep talkin and tellin everybody everything bout u then theres gonna be a point that theres not gonna be anything left to tell bout. Then eventualy get tired of listenin to u. SO there goes all the mysterious ****. Dont ever say more then nessasary. Also It might just be ur attitude. I got a freind with this weird attitude i mean everytime hes alone or with some1 it doesnt matter he would still smile, laugh, have fun and spice things up whereever he go. He would introduce all kind of different people and make freinds with everybody. Somehow i always want to hang out round this guy and IM A GUY! so its untellin how the chicks would feel bout this guy. soOriginally posted by 08aisaac
Who would of thought. Nerds do exist.
I used to be the same way, but if you want people to listen, you have to say something important. Are you sure they aren't just tired of listening to you?
Start rserving your speech for something important.
One thing at a time.
1. dont act so desperate.
2. say less than nessary.
3. listen to everybodys opinion and share ur own.
4. smile, stopin bein so damn stressed.
This is one of the truest thing I have realized.
I will try to answer your question better. Well people like talking about themselves, so take an interest in them. Try to learn about people, and be interest. Actually listen when they talk to you, and remember the little details about them.
Become a master conversationalist. I swear I could have a convo about anything. I was talking to this really cool chick, about her purse. It was made out of this weird material, and it felt awesome, and I learned that she doesn't really carry purses, and is very unmaterialistic, and we spent like the whole class talking to each other. I learned all sorts about her, just from talking about a purse.
Instead of focusing on talking to the whole class at once, focus on talking to one person, and really getting to know them, then eventually get around to meeting everyone, and knowing something secret about them, so you can have a connection.
Read the bible, they have a whole sectin dedicated to conversation, but I use conversation as my main tool, in attracting people. Oh and don't make fun of people. This is the most important thing, that no one ever discusses. But seriously, you will never know when that person could help you out, and most people hate bullies. I guess I don't need to say this, but you get my point.
I will try to answer your question better. Well people like talking about themselves, so take an interest in them. Try to learn about people, and be interest. Actually listen when they talk to you, and remember the little details about them.
Become a master conversationalist. I swear I could have a convo about anything. I was talking to this really cool chick, about her purse. It was made out of this weird material, and it felt awesome, and I learned that she doesn't really carry purses, and is very unmaterialistic, and we spent like the whole class talking to each other. I learned all sorts about her, just from talking about a purse.
Instead of focusing on talking to the whole class at once, focus on talking to one person, and really getting to know them, then eventually get around to meeting everyone, and knowing something secret about them, so you can have a connection.
Read the bible, they have a whole sectin dedicated to conversation, but I use conversation as my main tool, in attracting people. Oh and don't make fun of people. This is the most important thing, that no one ever discusses. But seriously, you will never know when that person could help you out, and most people hate bullies. I guess I don't need to say this, but you get my point.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This is a problem. Well if they don't feel like talking, they might blow you off.
I learned that people, especially girls, want to talk to other people, they are usually just really nervous. Or tired, or some other thing.
Even I don't talk to everyone, because sometimes, they just don't feel like it. I will usually either talk to someone else, or do something else.
But usually, they are just nervous, and either not very open, or they don't like you, or something, and you can't really help it. Try to determine if it is worth talking to them, or if there is someone else that you would rather talk to.
Sometimes, I just don't talk at all, and just look around the room, observing different people, that might be open to conversation, or that might be looking at me, then I smile, and open up to them. But if it is really lame, and the teacher doesn't notice, maybe you can get some shut eye?
I learned that people, especially girls, want to talk to other people, they are usually just really nervous. Or tired, or some other thing.
Even I don't talk to everyone, because sometimes, they just don't feel like it. I will usually either talk to someone else, or do something else.
But usually, they are just nervous, and either not very open, or they don't like you, or something, and you can't really help it. Try to determine if it is worth talking to them, or if there is someone else that you would rather talk to.
Sometimes, I just don't talk at all, and just look around the room, observing different people, that might be open to conversation, or that might be looking at me, then I smile, and open up to them. But if it is really lame, and the teacher doesn't notice, maybe you can get some shut eye?
Allright i hope it's not they dont like me cause i really am trying hard to make my life the way i want it. I got some great friends and i only know like 11 girls who actually talk to me but that's horrible compared to how many guys and i haven had a GF for 3 years.
THANX
THANX
Viper
Banned
It's not what you say it, it's how you say it. You might just have a bad voice like me.
Check out weapons of mass seduction if you want to improve on that, didn't help me, but it might help you.
Check out weapons of mass seduction if you want to improve on that, didn't help me, but it might help you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.