Ok my number one problem is no one listians to me i am really friendly and sometimes ppl just ignore or they just say high or ok and do something else another no girls walk up to me i have to walk to them is it cause i'm short i'm not loser or popular i'm middle lotta friends some nerd some cool dudes known but not known HELP ME OUT!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I need attention
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i consider myself a bit of a nerd too. When I was 11 i was not at all popular with the ladies, but now that i'm 15, i have a lot of good girl friends. Trick is to be confident. Chicks gravitate towards confident people. I'm single, but i've had a few offers. I'm waiting for the right person and that is also a way to get wanted.
Who would of thought. Nerds do exist.
I used to be the same way, but if you want people to listen, you have to say something important. Are you sure they aren't just tired of listening to you?
Start rserving your speech for something important.
One thing at a time.
I used to be the same way, but if you want people to listen, you have to say something important. Are you sure they aren't just tired of listening to you?
Start rserving your speech for something important.
One thing at a time.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Don Juan
This guy is right u know. Man if u keep talkin and tellin everybody everything bout u then theres gonna be a point that theres not gonna be anything left to tell bout. Then eventualy get tired of listenin to u. SO there goes all the mysterious ****. Dont ever say more then nessasary. Also It might just be ur attitude. I got a freind with this weird attitude i mean everytime hes alone or with some1 it doesnt matter he would still smile, laugh, have fun and spice things up whereever he go. He would introduce all kind of different people and make freinds with everybody. Somehow i always want to hang out round this guy and IM A GUY! so its untellin how the chicks would feel bout this guy. soOriginally posted by 08aisaac
Who would of thought. Nerds do exist.
I used to be the same way, but if you want people to listen, you have to say something important. Are you sure they aren't just tired of listening to you?
Start rserving your speech for something important.
One thing at a time.
1. dont act so desperate.
2. say less than nessary.
3. listen to everybodys opinion and share ur own.
4. smile, stopin bein so damn stressed.
This is one of the truest thing I have realized.
I will try to answer your question better. Well people like talking about themselves, so take an interest in them. Try to learn about people, and be interest. Actually listen when they talk to you, and remember the little details about them.
Become a master conversationalist. I swear I could have a convo about anything. I was talking to this really cool chick, about her purse. It was made out of this weird material, and it felt awesome, and I learned that she doesn't really carry purses, and is very unmaterialistic, and we spent like the whole class talking to each other. I learned all sorts about her, just from talking about a purse.
Instead of focusing on talking to the whole class at once, focus on talking to one person, and really getting to know them, then eventually get around to meeting everyone, and knowing something secret about them, so you can have a connection.
Read the bible, they have a whole sectin dedicated to conversation, but I use conversation as my main tool, in attracting people. Oh and don't make fun of people. This is the most important thing, that no one ever discusses. But seriously, you will never know when that person could help you out, and most people hate bullies. I guess I don't need to say this, but you get my point.
I will try to answer your question better. Well people like talking about themselves, so take an interest in them. Try to learn about people, and be interest. Actually listen when they talk to you, and remember the little details about them.
Become a master conversationalist. I swear I could have a convo about anything. I was talking to this really cool chick, about her purse. It was made out of this weird material, and it felt awesome, and I learned that she doesn't really carry purses, and is very unmaterialistic, and we spent like the whole class talking to each other. I learned all sorts about her, just from talking about a purse.
Instead of focusing on talking to the whole class at once, focus on talking to one person, and really getting to know them, then eventually get around to meeting everyone, and knowing something secret about them, so you can have a connection.
Read the bible, they have a whole sectin dedicated to conversation, but I use conversation as my main tool, in attracting people. Oh and don't make fun of people. This is the most important thing, that no one ever discusses. But seriously, you will never know when that person could help you out, and most people hate bullies. I guess I don't need to say this, but you get my point.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This is a problem. Well if they don't feel like talking, they might blow you off.
I learned that people, especially girls, want to talk to other people, they are usually just really nervous. Or tired, or some other thing.
Even I don't talk to everyone, because sometimes, they just don't feel like it. I will usually either talk to someone else, or do something else.
But usually, they are just nervous, and either not very open, or they don't like you, or something, and you can't really help it. Try to determine if it is worth talking to them, or if there is someone else that you would rather talk to.
Sometimes, I just don't talk at all, and just look around the room, observing different people, that might be open to conversation, or that might be looking at me, then I smile, and open up to them. But if it is really lame, and the teacher doesn't notice, maybe you can get some shut eye?
I learned that people, especially girls, want to talk to other people, they are usually just really nervous. Or tired, or some other thing.
Even I don't talk to everyone, because sometimes, they just don't feel like it. I will usually either talk to someone else, or do something else.
But usually, they are just nervous, and either not very open, or they don't like you, or something, and you can't really help it. Try to determine if it is worth talking to them, or if there is someone else that you would rather talk to.
Sometimes, I just don't talk at all, and just look around the room, observing different people, that might be open to conversation, or that might be looking at me, then I smile, and open up to them. But if it is really lame, and the teacher doesn't notice, maybe you can get some shut eye?
Allright i hope it's not they dont like me cause i really am trying hard to make my life the way i want it. I got some great friends and i only know like 11 girls who actually talk to me but that's horrible compared to how many guys and i haven had a GF for 3 years.
THANX
THANX
Viper
Banned
It's not what you say it, it's how you say it. You might just have a bad voice like me.
Check out weapons of mass seduction if you want to improve on that, didn't help me, but it might help you.
Check out weapons of mass seduction if you want to improve on that, didn't help me, but it might help you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.