"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i need advice: first date ever in 3 hours

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im actually going on my very first date.

it may be inappropriate for me to type in this "problem" that does'nt seem to be one.

but listen up please, i need advice, i dont know... i just have a feeling i'll mess this up, i dont know why...

i need to know everything about first dates or dating for that matter.

what is good to talk about, what not to talk about, what to do, and what not to do?

should i be holding hands with her already on the first date? i'm clueless!

i've read the dj bible, and i know much of the principles, but i dont know if i can actually apply it in real time.

if u are reading this, please reply with any help u can! i am going to get ready for my date, and i need u to help me NOW please!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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whoever you were when you asked this girl out, be that same person. That is who she'll ultimatly want to go out with, and have a good time with.
 
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You asked her out and she said yes, so you already won like most of the battle.

You know she's interested. Just stay calm and have a good time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by bob2007
You asked her out and she said yes, so you already won like most of the battle.

You know she's interested. Just stay calm and have a good time.
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im sorry this may come off as a stupid q yet again, but what if she thinks im boring??

alot of girls tend to like me bcause of my looks and money but after they get to know me... they lose all signs of interest. :(
 
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I heard this in a hindi movie "Jo dar gaya woh mar gaya" which means 'he who is afraid is as good as dead' its applicable to you

Anyway just lead & be fun to be with. Simple

btw add me if you got MSN [email protected]
...we're both 20 & RAFC, im just a bit ahead of you tho
 
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Your very first date, aaaaw it's so precious, NOT.

Congrats on getting your first date. I C you are feeling a bit nervous but what I want you to do is go and mess this one up. Let this be your little experiement. Oh believe me there will be plenty more dates for you, the only way to learn is to dive right in and make mistakes my friend. IT'S THE ONLY WAY TO EFFECTIVELY BECOME THE MAN YOU"VE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE.

Walking on eggshells, and worrying about how not to mess this precious, one of a kind date up will get you one tenth of the way compared to going in there, trying new things, messing up and then catching the next date. Take my advice, say invite what you fear.
 
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If it's your first date, just focus on having a good time. You don't need to lay her or get into advanced C&F or whatnot. The first date should just be an experience for its own sake.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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