"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

i need advice: first date ever in 3 hours

?

-.-

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2004
Messages
231
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Location
manila, philippines
im actually going on my very first date.

it may be inappropriate for me to type in this "problem" that does'nt seem to be one.

but listen up please, i need advice, i dont know... i just have a feeling i'll mess this up, i dont know why...

i need to know everything about first dates or dating for that matter.

what is good to talk about, what not to talk about, what to do, and what not to do?

should i be holding hands with her already on the first date? i'm clueless!

i've read the dj bible, and i know much of the principles, but i dont know if i can actually apply it in real time.

if u are reading this, please reply with any help u can! i am going to get ready for my date, and i need u to help me NOW please!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

T

true|hockey

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2003
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
whoever you were when you asked this girl out, be that same person. That is who she'll ultimatly want to go out with, and have a good time with.
 
B

bob2007

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2001
Messages
494
Reaction score
43
Location
NY
You asked her out and she said yes, so you already won like most of the battle.

You know she's interested. Just stay calm and have a good time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

?

-.-

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2004
Messages
231
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Location
manila, philippines
Originally posted by bob2007
You asked her out and she said yes, so you already won like most of the battle.

You know she's interested. Just stay calm and have a good time.
Click to expand...
im sorry this may come off as a stupid q yet again, but what if she thinks im boring??

alot of girls tend to like me bcause of my looks and money but after they get to know me... they lose all signs of interest. :(
 
S

SageOFAllenAge

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 2, 2004
Messages
231
Reaction score
0
Age
43
I heard this in a hindi movie "Jo dar gaya woh mar gaya" which means 'he who is afraid is as good as dead' its applicable to you

Anyway just lead & be fun to be with. Simple

btw add me if you got MSN [email protected]
...we're both 20 & RAFC, im just a bit ahead of you tho
 
B

BRYCEicl

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2002
Messages
141
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Your very first date, aaaaw it's so precious, NOT.

Congrats on getting your first date. I C you are feeling a bit nervous but what I want you to do is go and mess this one up. Let this be your little experiement. Oh believe me there will be plenty more dates for you, the only way to learn is to dive right in and make mistakes my friend. IT'S THE ONLY WAY TO EFFECTIVELY BECOME THE MAN YOU"VE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE.

Walking on eggshells, and worrying about how not to mess this precious, one of a kind date up will get you one tenth of the way compared to going in there, trying new things, messing up and then catching the next date. Take my advice, say invite what you fear.
 
M

MackJr

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 23, 2003
Messages
520
Reaction score
0
If it's your first date, just focus on having a good time. You don't need to lay her or get into advanced C&F or whatnot. The first date should just be an experience for its own sake.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top