"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I need a personal coach!!

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I need someone who can motivate me to reach my ideal weight and build. Someone to keep tabs on me and my personal progress. Someone that will hold me accountable to my routine! I can do this on my own but if I have to report to someone then I wlill most likely attempt it since I will be judged.

We should have a thread where we are all accountable to a sosuave coach. Anyone one up to the task? A sosuave personal trainer, anyone? You will not be paid. :rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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*Blows whistle*

Alright Last Man Standing on your mark get set...

Run!

*Times LMS for 50 laps around the Sosuave gym*

Thats the way we workout on this forum!
 

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No stopping for Geritol smoothies and Done's back pain pills. What if a 'hor is using the leg press ahead of you? What the fvck will you do? Go do crunches?
 

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Haha. Just read the "were to start" sticky and start a journal.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
I need someone who can motivate me to reach my ideal weight and build. Someone to keep tabs on me and my personal progress. Someone that will hold me accountable to my routine! I can do this on my own but if I have to report to someone then I wlill most likely attempt it since I will be judged.

We should have a thread where we are all accountable to a sosuave coach. Anyone one up to the task? A sosuave personal trainer, anyone? You will not be paid. :rolleyes:
Start an online training log somewhere. Here on sosuave or on StrongLifts.com Forums. Whatever. People will help you. If you put it on StrongLifts.com, I'll help you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warboss Alex

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Last Man Standing said:
A sosuave personal trainer, anyone? You will not be paid. :rolleyes:
I could squeeze another client in, but the 'you will not be paid' sentence kinda threw me.. :D

I would start a workout journal on here, and list your stats, training, diet, goals, pretty much everything. Essentially everyone who replies to you can be your 'trainer' that way.

Also, kudos for wanting to get in shape at 45.. there's guys at 20 who don't bother. Start that journal! :)
 
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