"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I need a personal coach!!

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I need someone who can motivate me to reach my ideal weight and build. Someone to keep tabs on me and my personal progress. Someone that will hold me accountable to my routine! I can do this on my own but if I have to report to someone then I wlill most likely attempt it since I will be judged.

We should have a thread where we are all accountable to a sosuave coach. Anyone one up to the task? A sosuave personal trainer, anyone? You will not be paid. :rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KontrollerX

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*Blows whistle*

Alright Last Man Standing on your mark get set...

Run!

*Times LMS for 50 laps around the Sosuave gym*

Thats the way we workout on this forum!
 

KarmaSutra

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No stopping for Geritol smoothies and Done's back pain pills. What if a 'hor is using the leg press ahead of you? What the fvck will you do? Go do crunches?
 

wolf116

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Haha. Just read the "were to start" sticky and start a journal.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
I need someone who can motivate me to reach my ideal weight and build. Someone to keep tabs on me and my personal progress. Someone that will hold me accountable to my routine! I can do this on my own but if I have to report to someone then I wlill most likely attempt it since I will be judged.

We should have a thread where we are all accountable to a sosuave coach. Anyone one up to the task? A sosuave personal trainer, anyone? You will not be paid. :rolleyes:
Start an online training log somewhere. Here on sosuave or on StrongLifts.com Forums. Whatever. People will help you. If you put it on StrongLifts.com, I'll help you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex

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Last Man Standing said:
A sosuave personal trainer, anyone? You will not be paid. :rolleyes:
I could squeeze another client in, but the 'you will not be paid' sentence kinda threw me.. :D

I would start a workout journal on here, and list your stats, training, diet, goals, pretty much everything. Essentially everyone who replies to you can be your 'trainer' that way.

Also, kudos for wanting to get in shape at 45.. there's guys at 20 who don't bother. Start that journal! :)
 
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