"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need a personal coach!!

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I need someone who can motivate me to reach my ideal weight and build. Someone to keep tabs on me and my personal progress. Someone that will hold me accountable to my routine! I can do this on my own but if I have to report to someone then I wlill most likely attempt it since I will be judged.

We should have a thread where we are all accountable to a sosuave coach. Anyone one up to the task? A sosuave personal trainer, anyone? You will not be paid. :rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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*Blows whistle*

Alright Last Man Standing on your mark get set...

Run!

*Times LMS for 50 laps around the Sosuave gym*

Thats the way we workout on this forum!
 

KarmaSutra

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No stopping for Geritol smoothies and Done's back pain pills. What if a 'hor is using the leg press ahead of you? What the fvck will you do? Go do crunches?
 

wolf116

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Haha. Just read the "were to start" sticky and start a journal.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
I need someone who can motivate me to reach my ideal weight and build. Someone to keep tabs on me and my personal progress. Someone that will hold me accountable to my routine! I can do this on my own but if I have to report to someone then I wlill most likely attempt it since I will be judged.

We should have a thread where we are all accountable to a sosuave coach. Anyone one up to the task? A sosuave personal trainer, anyone? You will not be paid. :rolleyes:
Start an online training log somewhere. Here on sosuave or on StrongLifts.com Forums. Whatever. People will help you. If you put it on StrongLifts.com, I'll help you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Warboss Alex

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Last Man Standing said:
A sosuave personal trainer, anyone? You will not be paid. :rolleyes:
I could squeeze another client in, but the 'you will not be paid' sentence kinda threw me.. :D

I would start a workout journal on here, and list your stats, training, diet, goals, pretty much everything. Essentially everyone who replies to you can be your 'trainer' that way.

Also, kudos for wanting to get in shape at 45.. there's guys at 20 who don't bother. Start that journal! :)
 
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