"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I need a confidence builder. And a kick in the pants.

smeckle

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I lost my job today from Wal-Mart. I worked in Sporting Goods and there was a botched gun sale.

I'm blessed with the fact that I'm in no legal trouble, but it still sucks. I'm living on my own with three other guys. One of whom doesn't like me (But he's a d ick, so I don't care).

I need a boost of confidence. Any ideas? My girlfriend lives in Maine, while I reside in NC. I've got very little money.

It's a longggg story.

But, the bottom line, I need to start kicking ass and taking names. Strap on boots and walk the country side. Ya know?

All help is needed and appreciated.

Thanks so much.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kyphan

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Go to a bookstore and pick up "The Greatest Salesman in the World" by Og Mandino and read it front to back. The book costs less than $10 and you can easily read the whole thing in under two hours. If you're not fired up at the end of that book, I don't know what else to tell you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Before you do anything else, go to Target, Cosco, FleetFarm, whatever store you guys have that competes with Walmart and apply for seasonal work. You may be able to start immediately with your background.
 

Derek Flint

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UPS and FedEx are also hiring seasonal workers, and for better pay than the discount stores.

Keep in mind that these positions will end right after Christmas, and that you must pass a drug test and background check.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hahahah Not a bad idea.

Just take the change at the end of the day. I'm heading out later to go look at jobs and pick up a copy of "The Greatest Salesman in the World". Thanks to kyphan, who recommended that.

Any other advice guys? Is there a bootcamp lesson or anything? haha.
 
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