"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I need a confidence builder. And a kick in the pants.

smeckle

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I lost my job today from Wal-Mart. I worked in Sporting Goods and there was a botched gun sale.

I'm blessed with the fact that I'm in no legal trouble, but it still sucks. I'm living on my own with three other guys. One of whom doesn't like me (But he's a d ick, so I don't care).

I need a boost of confidence. Any ideas? My girlfriend lives in Maine, while I reside in NC. I've got very little money.

It's a longggg story.

But, the bottom line, I need to start kicking ass and taking names. Strap on boots and walk the country side. Ya know?

All help is needed and appreciated.

Thanks so much.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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kyphan

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Go to a bookstore and pick up "The Greatest Salesman in the World" by Og Mandino and read it front to back. The book costs less than $10 and you can easily read the whole thing in under two hours. If you're not fired up at the end of that book, I don't know what else to tell you.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Before you do anything else, go to Target, Cosco, FleetFarm, whatever store you guys have that competes with Walmart and apply for seasonal work. You may be able to start immediately with your background.
 

Derek Flint

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UPS and FedEx are also hiring seasonal workers, and for better pay than the discount stores.

Keep in mind that these positions will end right after Christmas, and that you must pass a drug test and background check.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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smeckle

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Hahahah Not a bad idea.

Just take the change at the end of the day. I'm heading out later to go look at jobs and pick up a copy of "The Greatest Salesman in the World". Thanks to kyphan, who recommended that.

Any other advice guys? Is there a bootcamp lesson or anything? haha.
 
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